Basically I live in North East Ohio and he's from Miami, Florida.
I have been stressing so much about who's going to move where and also about what I'm even planning on doing for college. I graduate in spring and I really would love to go to college there because they have a lot of the degrees I would like look into. Ohio, doesn't have good colleges especially in the fields I'd want to be in.
I'm also afraid of when one of us moves to the other place, what if we hate it or want to move somewhere else? It's so stressful! He's been here once so far and is going to be here again during December and I still have yet to go and see Miami. I have been on vacation to Florida once but it was in Daytona and honestly I HATED it, I hate the hot and I was sick just about the entire vacation I was there and I'm extremely nervous if I'd be able to handle living in a place like that.
As far as family goes-
My family will be more financially stable and would help us out A LOT. They plan on buying me a house once they pay off a few more things, so obviously I think it'd be better if he came here because we'd have a free house lol! His family are not so much financially stable, but are the most loving and caring families I've ever met. I honestly can't stand being around my family that much so I'd love to be with his...but like I said mine are more financially stable and can help us with money a lot more.
As far as jobs go-
Neither of us can find a job, we've both been trying for months and we can't get hired anywhere. So I'd hate to go there (I'd be living with him and his parents until I can attend college) And not be able to also get a job and help around the house.
College-
Like I said I wouldn't mind going to college there because they have the fields I'd like to go into whereas Ohio doesn't. The closet college(s) to me that offer my interests are almost 2 hours away so we'd might have to even move to a different city if we stay here.
He's already in college, and plans on going into radiology so he has his college all figured out already.
I feel like I should be the one to move since I don't like my family that much...but I'm SO extremely scared of moving, period. Though of course it's going to be hard for him if not harder since he's more closer to his family.
I just have no idea how to even put these into categories of pros and cons...and it's going to be so hard for both of us but even more scary for me since I'm younger than him, haven't had a job, haven't been on a plane, haven't moved or even been away from my parents that much.
Not to mention, I have a car.. and he doesn't. So if I were to move I'd have to figure out a plan to get my things in my tiny ass car AND drive all that way to Florida lol!
Can anyone give any input or advice? I just don't understand how some people have done this already it's so stressful and hard to keep calm about it.
Thanks so much for reading!
I have been stressing so much about who's going to move where and also about what I'm even planning on doing for college. I graduate in spring and I really would love to go to college there because they have a lot of the degrees I would like look into. Ohio, doesn't have good colleges especially in the fields I'd want to be in.
I'm also afraid of when one of us moves to the other place, what if we hate it or want to move somewhere else? It's so stressful! He's been here once so far and is going to be here again during December and I still have yet to go and see Miami. I have been on vacation to Florida once but it was in Daytona and honestly I HATED it, I hate the hot and I was sick just about the entire vacation I was there and I'm extremely nervous if I'd be able to handle living in a place like that.
As far as family goes-
My family will be more financially stable and would help us out A LOT. They plan on buying me a house once they pay off a few more things, so obviously I think it'd be better if he came here because we'd have a free house lol! His family are not so much financially stable, but are the most loving and caring families I've ever met. I honestly can't stand being around my family that much so I'd love to be with his...but like I said mine are more financially stable and can help us with money a lot more.
As far as jobs go-
Neither of us can find a job, we've both been trying for months and we can't get hired anywhere. So I'd hate to go there (I'd be living with him and his parents until I can attend college) And not be able to also get a job and help around the house.
College-
Like I said I wouldn't mind going to college there because they have the fields I'd like to go into whereas Ohio doesn't. The closet college(s) to me that offer my interests are almost 2 hours away so we'd might have to even move to a different city if we stay here.
He's already in college, and plans on going into radiology so he has his college all figured out already.
I feel like I should be the one to move since I don't like my family that much...but I'm SO extremely scared of moving, period. Though of course it's going to be hard for him if not harder since he's more closer to his family.
I just have no idea how to even put these into categories of pros and cons...and it's going to be so hard for both of us but even more scary for me since I'm younger than him, haven't had a job, haven't been on a plane, haven't moved or even been away from my parents that much.
Not to mention, I have a car.. and he doesn't. So if I were to move I'd have to figure out a plan to get my things in my tiny ass car AND drive all that way to Florida lol!
Can anyone give any input or advice? I just don't understand how some people have done this already it's so stressful and hard to keep calm about it.
Thanks so much for reading!
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