Despite my last thread of like, yesterday, today has brought entirely new circumstances into my life which have lead to my boyfriend and I having to seriously consider moving in together sooner than expected. Basically, because of some issues with my job, I may have to move to where he lives sooner than expected since that is our ultimate goal. We will still have time to work out our current issues before then, but I may basically have to just take a leap of faith and move there, like I said much sooner than expected.
Has anyone done this? I will not have been there many times, and we will not (at any point in our relationship as long as we are long distance) be able to spend an extended amount of time together before making this decision. I know this is a complete juxtaposition from how I felt yesterday, but after we talked I realized how strong we are as a couple as long as we communicate with each other, it's when we don't we both get unhappy.
We talked about our concerns with me doing this, and a basic plan of action, how things would be different sooner than later as well as expectations for the future. This will be an on going conversation. We would still have five months to half a year to decide if this is right for us.
Regardless, have any of you guys made this decision? To move to be with your SO despite not having spent a significant amount of time where you decide to move to?
Has anyone done this? I will not have been there many times, and we will not (at any point in our relationship as long as we are long distance) be able to spend an extended amount of time together before making this decision. I know this is a complete juxtaposition from how I felt yesterday, but after we talked I realized how strong we are as a couple as long as we communicate with each other, it's when we don't we both get unhappy.
We talked about our concerns with me doing this, and a basic plan of action, how things would be different sooner than later as well as expectations for the future. This will be an on going conversation. We would still have five months to half a year to decide if this is right for us.
Regardless, have any of you guys made this decision? To move to be with your SO despite not having spent a significant amount of time where you decide to move to?
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