So, I am brand new to this site. My bf and I are about to start a long distance relationship. I am moving on July 15th to go to graduate school and he starts graduate school in August. I am not only nervous about the move; I am also kind of sad about leaving him here. I know that will only be for two years but a lot can happen in two years. He travels a lot and my brother lives here so I have reason to come back and visit. However, being in school will prevent excess travel.
Most of everything will fall where it does but for now I am looking for a creative present idea to give him before I leave. I do not have much free time because I am employed full time and still have to pack. I also do not have a lot of extra money. I want to do something personal. We do have a trip planned from the 7th-12th that will give us memories but I still want to give him something.
I also worry that he will decide that this will be too much work or that he will find someone else while I am away. He has expressed similar concerns but he does not seem to want to actually talk about things. He did go out of his way to plan a nice trip for us, so I know he actually cares. I just want a nice way to talk about expectations without seeming like I am pressuring him on the subject. We only have about three weeks before we have to say good-bye.
Most of everything will fall where it does but for now I am looking for a creative present idea to give him before I leave. I do not have much free time because I am employed full time and still have to pack. I also do not have a lot of extra money. I want to do something personal. We do have a trip planned from the 7th-12th that will give us memories but I still want to give him something.
I also worry that he will decide that this will be too much work or that he will find someone else while I am away. He has expressed similar concerns but he does not seem to want to actually talk about things. He did go out of his way to plan a nice trip for us, so I know he actually cares. I just want a nice way to talk about expectations without seeming like I am pressuring him on the subject. We only have about three weeks before we have to say good-bye.
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