My bf and I have a crazy story on how we ended up together but to both of us it was fate.
We were friends before we ever dated and he knows all about my previous LDR and was there for me through the whole mess. We always got along and I always had a slight crush on him and vice versa well we are now together and I couldn't be happier. I had to have reality slap me in the face to see it though!
We have discussed family and marriage and we want both. We discussed all of this prior to his visit home this month and when he got here we did look at promise rings. He had asked if it would be ok if he got me a ring to show how he was committed and wasn't going anywhere and that he wanted to marry me one day, sooner rather than later that is We are both in our early 30s and we want the same things and he is the sweetest guy I have ever met and I am way beyond happy. This is the first time I feel secure. I didn't even cry when he left! I knew I'd see him again and I knew there was nothing left unsaid or unplanned between us. We are already discuss what to do and how to plan the next visit. He won't be back til about May which for both of us it's a good thing, gives us time to save and get ready for our time together.
Anway I came home from work one night and he was outside waiting for me, which was not normal. He then followed me all around my tiny apt and finally handed me a box and inside was this:
I love it, it is perfect for me and what he wanted it for although I told him I didn't need a ring to know he was serious. We already discuss wedding stuff and kids so this is just a start to our life together. He said when he does the actual proposing he will not let me know when he is coming he will just show up and surprise me.....which in a way is cute but in a way freaks me out lol Not in a bad way, just in a way that a surprise like that would freak anyone out slightly!
We were friends before we ever dated and he knows all about my previous LDR and was there for me through the whole mess. We always got along and I always had a slight crush on him and vice versa well we are now together and I couldn't be happier. I had to have reality slap me in the face to see it though!
We have discussed family and marriage and we want both. We discussed all of this prior to his visit home this month and when he got here we did look at promise rings. He had asked if it would be ok if he got me a ring to show how he was committed and wasn't going anywhere and that he wanted to marry me one day, sooner rather than later that is We are both in our early 30s and we want the same things and he is the sweetest guy I have ever met and I am way beyond happy. This is the first time I feel secure. I didn't even cry when he left! I knew I'd see him again and I knew there was nothing left unsaid or unplanned between us. We are already discuss what to do and how to plan the next visit. He won't be back til about May which for both of us it's a good thing, gives us time to save and get ready for our time together.
Anway I came home from work one night and he was outside waiting for me, which was not normal. He then followed me all around my tiny apt and finally handed me a box and inside was this:
I love it, it is perfect for me and what he wanted it for although I told him I didn't need a ring to know he was serious. We already discuss wedding stuff and kids so this is just a start to our life together. He said when he does the actual proposing he will not let me know when he is coming he will just show up and surprise me.....which in a way is cute but in a way freaks me out lol Not in a bad way, just in a way that a surprise like that would freak anyone out slightly!
Comment