Is your SO considerably more attractive than you?

[OvertheSea]

We have never really talked about it, but I always wonder if I'm attractive enough to been seen with someone so classically handsome (like...1800's? mmm), but he has said similar things about himself compared to me..so, I think we're pretty equal?

[Deleted]

That's a funny question :P In my case I've been told I'm hotter than him and he says so too, but I believe there is not that much of a difference.

When I met him he was not at his best though... his hair looked messy, he had acne and his teeth needed attention...but he has a very beautiful eye shape, very gentle looking, and attractive hazel eyes. It was his voice that caught me, and of course his personality. But when we started dating (we used to be CD), there were people speaking about us wondering why would I date him. Which I did not get because I feel average... not remarkably beautiful but enough as to have some self-esteem. Even my mother told me so... because at that time I had dated other two guys who were gorgeous in look, but nutcases in conversation.

My SO lacks some confidence in his looks but as soon as he moved and had some time, he began to eat properly, take care of his skin and teeth and changed his haircut. As I said I never judged his aspect, but suddenly new haircut, a clear skin, white teeth and even getting taller... wow. He's not the stereotype of handsome but he is just gorgeous to me. I tell him so a lot because I've seen that the more confidence he has, he feels better and it even seems as if his luck gets better. Besides... he looks better when he's confident. From the day we've met to nowadays, he's even changed his posture because his gained lots of confidence. I hope someday he stops saying he does not get why "a beautiful girl" chose "an ugly thing" like him!

[silvermune]

Hah she doesn't think so but she is much more attractive to me. :] Imma lucky guy

[hunniebunn]

I think he is more attractive than me; he is Arab/Italian, with the most amazing features; big brown eyes, great smile, nice bum
I often wonder what he sees in me; I have made a lot of improvements in myself (losing 49 pounds, clearer skin), but I still lack the self confidence.
I know he loves me the way I am, and that's all I need