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    My SO is finally home but not with me?

    My SO just got home from college last night and I was able to spend time with him for a few hours. Today however I haven't gotten been able to see him at all because he is hanging out with his friends. I don't want to be a controlling girlfriend but I can't help but feel upset that he didn't choose to spend his first full day here with me. And to add to that, today is a special day because it is our "monthaversary"
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    #2
    Hm, well I'm going to go out on a limb and say that since you've been together for a couple years by this point, and say that maybe he felt comfortable not seeing you immediately? Since he saw you the night before and likely hadn't seen his friends, maybe he wanted to go spend some time with them? Or perhaps they planned something before he came home, like a welcome home party of sorts?
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    Met online: February 2009
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      #3
      I agree with Eclaire but I can understand your frustration. Just remember that you did get to see him already and his friends didn't.

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      Started our college long distance relationship: August 2011
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        #4
        Dont worry about it. he saw you yesterday and he will see the you the majority of the time! so even let it bother you, not even a little!

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          #5
          I understand your frustration. I felt the same, first day was with his family, did see him for a while his second day here, but it's my only day off. He was going to come see me on my lunch while I was at work yesterday, ended up going bowling with his dad. I asked him when I get to see him again, he said today, but when I told him my work schedule he didn't respond. I think he forgot about our holiday hours and the fact that I work crazy stupid hours. So I understand, it's frustrating when they're finally close by and you still don't get to see them. He does need time with his friends though too. Hopefully if you let him have his time with his friends, things will be better the rest of the time he's home. I understand your frustration though. Try to stay busy, and do something fun for yourself

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            #6
            I get where you're coming from, but he wants to see his friends too. Make sure to set up a special "us" date for tomorrow!

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              #7
              Thanks everyone!

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