he moved in with his ex without telling you? I don't see how this should be normal. And this ex even stalked him. hmm, to be honest, I'm not so sure if he's being honest to you...
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I'm quite confused about the situation. But if he moved in with an ex I'd break up with him.
Became a couple: March 17th, 2010
Started our college long distance relationship: August 2011
Surprise engagement in Disneyworld! : March 22nd, 2013
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Am I the only one who thinks that it is weird to report someone to the police because of stalking and then move in with the stalker? O.O
I think the story he is telling you raises several red flags as you've pointed out yourself. Only you can decide if you can still trust him enough to be in a relationship with him. If not cut your losses and run!
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No. XD I pointed this out also.Originally posted by littlethinktank View Post{ Our Story on LFAD }
Our Beginning
Met online: February 2009
Feelings confessed: December 2010
Unofficially together since: January/February 2011
Officially together since: 08 April 2011
Our Story
First meeting in person: 16 August - 14 September 2011
Second visit: 17 March - 01 April 2012
Third visit: 23 July - 13 September 2012
Fourth visit: Looking at 23 March - 6 April 2013
Our Happily Ever After
to be continued...Comment
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No there's a lot that just doesn't add up here.
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This whole situtation, to me seems fishy at best and creepy at worst. I have been stalked before and like someone else said, you would not move in with you stalker no matter what. I think you said he did it because it was the only way to get this creep to stop following him...but that is just really faulty reasoning. If someone is that obsessed with you, living with them is just so not the right way to go. Does Chris have family he can move in with? Friends? This whole thing is just a whole bucketload of crazy drama IMHO and if I was you I would avoid it like the plague. He needs to fix his life and this situation before he should even consider being with someone. I am sorry if I come across blunt, I just feel strongly that this is a bad if not dangerous situation that needs to be avoided.Comment
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he's living with his ex???? oh dear..... you need to dump him hun. if not he's gonna continue to flip-flop and cause all of this drama. I've never trusted anyone who still lives with their ex.Comment
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red flags on this one ALL OVER.. if this were my situation, I'd cut and run dear. All I can say.Nothing ever comes with ease,
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No matter if it was a guy or a girl, if my SO was living with an ex, I wouldnt like that. have amicable relationship with an ex? ok. Live with the ex? Err... NO!
And I agree with whoever said, you run away from the stalker, you move further away from the stalker, you keep going to the police when new evidence prevents itself (if someone is truly stalking you, there will be new evidence soon enough, and if nothing else happens, good ridance!), but you do not, in no ciscumstance, move in with the stalker. specially a stalker that is also an ex!!!
run away while you still can!our story.
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