It's a miracle ♥

[Tanja]

I understand what you guys are telling me and I have a feeling he did fake his death however I'm not completely sure

This is a sentence you should never ever have to say about your bf !!!
You're gonna be so much better off without him, trust me. Forget about this guy, there are honest decent blokes out there who are worth the love and trust you give them.

[Minerva]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/M%C3%B...en_by_Internet

I don't post much here anymore, but I still lurk and this thread struck me. Seen this sort of thing a lot in my years online. I wonder who is really being played here, as online support groups tend to attract people looking for attention. I find it strange that the OP continually defensively asks why people think she's lying when no one has really accused her of it. Be careful.

[Engel]

I agree with the above.

On another site I was on, two people staged a car accident of two of the members. One other staged a coma that was believed for a long, long time. The other one staged someone who we were told they were dead but they made a "come back" and explained their story, which was not the same as yours, but much like yours, as far as blame etc. and it turns out that that, too, was a lie and that the person themselves were completely fabricated. I don't think things would ever go back to normal after this, especially since it's so easy to lie on the internet. I honestly don't think I'd believe it without medical bills as proof, or some report, something. I've seen it too much to believe these things when they happen. It was fishy from the moment you brought it up, so unless you're in on it, I'd be wary. :/

I didnt see those things happening, but im finding it as hard to believe as you are Eclaire. Too easy to lie online and prettend to be someone else, unfortunatelly.

:/

[snow_girl]

Whoever mentioned something about the movei Catfish, I watched it last night. It was good but really creepy and I see why you said she should watch it.

[Engel]

I'm pretty sure by your responses that you aren't going to listen to this one, but I'll try anyway.

I remember reading your last thread and either thinking it was fake, or that you were getting the biggest, most unbelievable bullshit story ever, which is why I didn't bother to respond. Look, people, especially young ones, don't just wake up one day needing a liver transplant. Generally, and there are exceptions, there is a long period of declining illness first. Also, unless someone in his family donated an organ, people wait YEARS on the transplant list before getting an organ, more people die waiting than actually getting one. In other words, the chances of him feeling sick one day and popping into the emergency room, and walking out with a brand spanking new liver are almost impossible. Do your research on this. If you still choose to talk to this guy again, I'd ask for a hell of a lot more evidence than his scar.

Your mother isn't allowing you to talk to him anymore because she's wiser than you, she knows there's something wrong here. Sweetie, I think you're being played hard, and by a story that's not even near well done. Could I be wrong about this? Sure, stranger things have happened to people, but I can almost guarantee you I'm not. Too many things in this story simply don't add up or make sense. Listen to your mom and get out now, this is not going to have a good conclusion.

To be fair, she did mention in another post that he was an alcoholic and depending on where he lives, there don't necessarily have to be medical bills. I know that in my country if you have state healthcare, the doctor sends the bills directly to your insurance. I've never seen a medical bill in my life.

That said, I too, believe that the story is a bit too unlikely (and what was that about him having a leg amputated?). I second what Shepard-Fowkes and Moon said to you, cut your losses and RUN (or block his screenname anyway).

agreed, and really hope you listen those wise ladies in here and never talk to him again!

[Sharon Q]

I'm sorry that this happened but it seems as if you are better off without him, If you can't trust wather or not he faked his own death than you don't need to be with him. It takes time to get on a transplant list let alone it could take months to get a transplant. It all sounded fishy. Just give it time. Time will help you move on, find someone better and be in a healthy relationship. I'm sorry things didn't work out, but everything happens for a reason. Things will get better with time <3