Another LDR Post Secret

[Rugger]

Hey all, I just wanted to post this for all of you.



So does anyone else do this? I know when I have to leave from a visit, I dawdle so I'll have just a little more time with him

[yaz722]

YES! And then when we're at the airport we'll have breakfast before security...

[loveknowsnodistance27]

I do this! Lol and then I will stall for time at the airport. Like, I'll try to keep talking with him to try and distract him from the fact that he has a plane to catch. I'm so terrible lol.

[Haley53]

Yes and no. xD Yes because we did do this to an extent, no because a) I was worried about time (in Dublin, going out of the country, you have security but you also have pre-clearance, so you go through customs & immigration there) and b) I didn't want to fall apart. :P I felt like I needed to be strong for us both, and I'm sure he felt the same, as we really were at that really tight-lipped, wet eyed point where all you need is one thing... xD So I was torn between dawdling and getting in that last hug and kiss and leaving, where I could hopefully find relief by finding somewhere to cry and be miserable.

[blankita719]

Pretty sure my SO does this to me all the time when I go up there In fact, the first time I went to visit him, he went so slow he made me miss my flight and I had to reschedule a later one.

[meganpillow]

I just go to the greyhound station/airport extra early to get all my stuff done, so I can be with my SO for as long as possible before I board. Whenever I get on it though, I sit in the back and bury my face in my hands. I don't want anybody seeing that I'm crying. I don't know about you guys, but every time I leave it does get a little bit easier. I am started to get use to saying goodbye, because I always look foreword to the next hello!

[Malaga]

Generally we try to do quick goodbyes. We don't linger around the airport any longer than necessary, or go take too much time to say goodbye. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn't. I never really cry, but sometimes I do feel crushed.

[meg]

I wish I could dawdle, but everytime we say goodbye my IBS flares up so bad that I just want it over with so the pain will stop!

Also the train station we use is about an hour and 10 mins away on a good day with no traffic. Hit traffic and we're in trouble!

[Manoek]

Yeah.. I don't like to linger with anything.. SO when we said goodbye, I'm more of a pull off the band-aid type of person.. I could have stand at the airport for awhile.. but I just wanted to get it over with :'(

[maja]

well I don't have to fly to see him, but I sometimes go by train and we always wait till the very last minute to leave to the train station, almost missed my train once because of that..

[Off2Spain]

Haha we are sosososo bad at saying goodbye up until the point when one of us walks away only to run back for just one more kiss. It might make it harder but it leaves you good memories!

[haribo0603]

I try to linger when I say good bye at the airport/station but my SO prefers a quick good bye as he is completely unromantic. Sometimes I envy someone who takes time to say good bye to the partner.

[nicole]

Yes! I'm always saying "We don't really have to be there 2 hours ahead. so long as we're more than 1 hour it's fine...." and then we spend 10 minutes at least hugging before security when we eventually get there. So hard to let go of him!