He didn't get on his flight...

[jenjepp]

i'm so sorry! i'm not trying to give you false hope or anything like that, but it could be that he might have just gotten scared. me and my boyfriend recently broke up because our moving situation isn't working out how we thought. but we are already trying to come up with solutions. maybe you two just need some time apart.

[LuvSsw]

I am so sorry for you. Be prepared for the roller coaster of emotions that come with healing from heartbreak but through it all take care of yourself. It may feel scary and just impossible to get through..but that is part of the healing. To heal you should cut all contact, and if you are blaming yourself...forgive yourself ....to be in love is to be open. Some folks just don't know how to handle a vulnerable heart when it's given to them...that's their problem which ends up hurting others.
He was a coward for doing that to you in that manner. FB...really? ugh. Message me if you'd like to talk. Big Hugs to you <3

[Katelyn]

This was so upsetting to read =( Hang in there girl and stay strong. I cannot believe he would do that and I can't believe over facebook of all things. I don't really know what to say, but I hope that you realize you deserve someone better. He could be possible nervous and that caused him to back out but he should have had enough respect to tell you about it and not give you the whole "I'll see you tomorrow". I'm just so sorry this had to happen to you like this. *hugs*

[Haley53]

Wow. I'm shocked that someone could be so callous...

I am so sorry to hear this; it must absolutely be devestating. Big hugs to you and as others have said, do make time to take care of yourself and take the time to grieve and work through all the emotions from this experience.

[rixue]

I'm sorry to hear this D: what a way to be blindsided! Stay strong! I know right now it seems like your future is gone, but look at it as a change in your future. Hopefully a silver lining will come out of this for you! Big hugs and try to keep yourself busy with friends, family, and hobbies.

[Lizzie Blue]

I am so sorry!! I wish I had some words that can make you feel better....I thought this post was going to go very differently based on the title. My BF missed his first flight out because of ice, but at the time I panicked and thought more. But a break up later is far worse!!

You do deserve closure but I have been in enough relationships (both LD and close) to know that it doesn't always happens. Try your best to give him some space, he may be able to at least talk through the end with you in a few days. Or perhaps try the email route in a few days if talking isnt his strong suit. But even if he never can tell you more....it doesnt save the hurt and pain.

Others are right, he strung you along. He CLEARLY was having doubts and was not man enough to be honest about them. Honesty is huge in EVERY relationship, but I think even more in LDR.

*hugs*

[elina]

Wow.. I'm so sorry to hear this. And for him to break up with you on Facebook is the lamest thing ever. How did he not even have the guts to call or wait until he's with you? He sounds like a proper jerk.

Stay strong, it takes time for the pain to go away but you'll get there *hugs*

[yaz722]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Thats such a shitty way to break up with someone, just before they are due to see you again. How heart breaking x

[Kristin91]

I am so sorry to hear this! Remember, we're all here for you (hugs)

[floridaellen]

I'm very sorry to hear that :/ That's horrible of him and completely unforgiveable in my eyes.

[clayslady4life]

thats so sad...im here for u

[Brieasaurus]

That's horrible. I'm so sorry. Time fixes everything but in the meantime there's ice cream and sad movies.

[CKJS]

Oh my goodness! I'm so sorry!!! That was so heart breaking to read. I really wish I could hug you right now. I can't believe someone would do that. I don't even know you but I do know you don't deserve that. I hope he will be nice enough to at least give you a legit reason for lying.

[marbear31]

Honey, I'm so sorry!!!! *super huge hug* That's just bullshit. I wish I could give you a hug right now, and I hate not having answers, but chocolate and tea always make me feel better in a life crisis. Don't be afraid to cry, journal, talk with close friends, etc. You need closure, and you definitely need to do it for YOU, and no one else. I would take time to compose him an email/facebook message, and ask, calmly and collectively, what happened. Don't be demanding, nag, etc.--just be neutral and drama-free, even if you feel like tearing your hair out. Is it fair? No. Should you be able to yell at him? Yes. But if you want answers, I'd wait for a few days, and see if he contacts you; if not, send him that calm message, and let him know you are available if he needs to talk.

I went through something like this (although we didn't breakup--it was more of a potential one because of insecurities, etc.),and it was the most agonizing week of my life. I did a lot of journaling, and I listened to a TON of Pat Benatar and Def Leppard. Electric guitars onomatopaeitized my frustration. :P I really took time to focus on me, and I can say it's one of the best personal growth periods of my life thus far. That being said, when you've done all you can, stripped away all of your doubts and anxieties, you will be okay. I promise you. It will take time, but give yourself the luxury of hoping and discovering new things. It's worth it.

Also, if anything, for the sake of what you once had, ask him to please explain to you what happened (and you DESERVE a face to face conversation), but don't force him. Men are like mules; they'll come around eventually, but honestly...(and this applies to any person :P), people don't change unless they're willing to change. I sure hope he's kind enough to explain to you properly what's going on (and potentially help you through this as well), and you will discover that you're stronger than you think.

If you need to talk, please PM me--I'm here if you need a friend. Much love!

[Tooki]

That must suck mate. I feel for you.

Just make some time for yourself and be around family and friends.