Hi everyone!
My SO and I are in a very complicated situation. And because it's very complicated, I would like to summarize our problems in the list below:
- the distance barrier (of course! ^^): 8726 miles apart according to Google...
- the time zone barrier: I am 13 hours earlier than him..It means that when I'm going to sleep is when he get up and go to school or work. We dont have much time to talk.
- the living culture barrier: Im living in Viet Nam, and he is in US. I dont know much about US lifestyle and especially the way when you are in love.
- the age barrier: I am 6 years older than him...
- the family barrier: it's very serious!!..We are cousins..!!!T.T
Everything began when he came to Viet Nam on this Tet holiday. I am truly in love with him and I know so is he. He said that he had noticed me 5 years ago (the previous time he came back VN) and we had first kiss at that time (shame on me..I dont have any sense about that...
When he went back to US, we still kept in touch very often. He texted me much at day and night, we saved every little free time to connect..when he had break time at school, when I was at work, when he woke up earlier than usual, when I tried to stay up till 1 or 2 am....we only had weekend to skype to see each other.
But later, many problems happend, his laptop broke, he bought new phone but can not unlock, a lot of chool stuffs, work was so hard...He hasn't texted me as much as before, very long time no skype. He tells that school and work together is very hard for him, and keep trying till his graduation, he will have more free time...But my hope is losing day by day....Sometimes I waited very long for his reply of my text. He said he is so busy. But I wonder..Is he too busy to save 1 minute to text for his girl. Are you guys in USA are very busy? Do senior students must do very hard for school work?...It's really hurt!!
As I told, I dont know how you guys in US treat your lovers. I want to be with him as much as I can. I want to tell him a lot of love quotes to let him know how much I miss him. But Im afraid of making him feel pressure and heavy.
I read a lot of advices for maintaining a healthy LDR. They said one of the most important thing is always TRUST your lover. I trust his love is true..But does he love me as much as the first time.
Maybe he is also confused bc of those barriers and want to be alone to decided whether continue or not...One time I told him that our relationship is very complicated, He and I have a same decision that We can make it through as long as we are still in love with each other, and we will try. But now ...what is he thinking?
It is 1:00 am here, he may be at work now..no text in whole day and I'm still waiting. Waiting hopelessly is killing me...I miss him so bad...What should I do??
Thank you for having time with my pain...^^
My SO and I are in a very complicated situation. And because it's very complicated, I would like to summarize our problems in the list below:
- the distance barrier (of course! ^^): 8726 miles apart according to Google...
- the time zone barrier: I am 13 hours earlier than him..It means that when I'm going to sleep is when he get up and go to school or work. We dont have much time to talk.
- the living culture barrier: Im living in Viet Nam, and he is in US. I dont know much about US lifestyle and especially the way when you are in love.
- the age barrier: I am 6 years older than him...
- the family barrier: it's very serious!!..We are cousins..!!!T.T
Everything began when he came to Viet Nam on this Tet holiday. I am truly in love with him and I know so is he. He said that he had noticed me 5 years ago (the previous time he came back VN) and we had first kiss at that time (shame on me..I dont have any sense about that...
When he went back to US, we still kept in touch very often. He texted me much at day and night, we saved every little free time to connect..when he had break time at school, when I was at work, when he woke up earlier than usual, when I tried to stay up till 1 or 2 am....we only had weekend to skype to see each other.
But later, many problems happend, his laptop broke, he bought new phone but can not unlock, a lot of chool stuffs, work was so hard...He hasn't texted me as much as before, very long time no skype. He tells that school and work together is very hard for him, and keep trying till his graduation, he will have more free time...But my hope is losing day by day....Sometimes I waited very long for his reply of my text. He said he is so busy. But I wonder..Is he too busy to save 1 minute to text for his girl. Are you guys in USA are very busy? Do senior students must do very hard for school work?...It's really hurt!!
As I told, I dont know how you guys in US treat your lovers. I want to be with him as much as I can. I want to tell him a lot of love quotes to let him know how much I miss him. But Im afraid of making him feel pressure and heavy.
I read a lot of advices for maintaining a healthy LDR. They said one of the most important thing is always TRUST your lover. I trust his love is true..But does he love me as much as the first time.
Maybe he is also confused bc of those barriers and want to be alone to decided whether continue or not...One time I told him that our relationship is very complicated, He and I have a same decision that We can make it through as long as we are still in love with each other, and we will try. But now ...what is he thinking?
It is 1:00 am here, he may be at work now..no text in whole day and I'm still waiting. Waiting hopelessly is killing me...I miss him so bad...What should I do??
Thank you for having time with my pain...^^
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