Children?

[aeiouna]

We've definitely talked about it seriously. I'm 26, and he turns 26 in July, so it's not something we can put off for much longer. We're closing the distance next month, then we'll take it from there.

He'll definitely be a great dad. I've seen him with his niece and I can't wait.

[ChibiFelicia]

I think i was in a similar situation to you lala. I was nearly 24 when i met my man and he was 30. we had the "how commited are we to make this work" conversation about 6 months after meeting. We basically told each that we're getting to the stage where we've had enough messing around and that if we cant see each other in our futures then we'd break it off. We both werent ready for marriage or kids. And im not sure either of us wanted that. But that conversation came up on a regular basis. He eventually told me that he wanted kids and marriage. The marriage part will be happening this year. But we wont close the distance for a maxium of another 2 years. So approx 5 years all together. I want kids before im 30 but we'll see.

As for how many kids? 2. Him being a good father? Yes, but i wont know till we actually have kids

[Kiyama]

I'm 27 now and I definitely want children sometime. My SO is quite a bit older than me so I feel like we shouldn't wait for too long, haha. I'm not really stressed out about it. I'd seriously like to start thinking about it maybe in two years from now or so but I wouldn't mind if it was later. I'm not in a rush. If my SO manages to get a job out here in fall, we'll still have to have a weekend relationship because I'm bound to my job for another year and he can't move to the city I live in right now as there wont be any jobs for him. So it's at least a year before we move in with each other and I feel a bit selfish that way and want to enjoy time with him alone first getting married however is something completely different. We've talked about it already because we weren't sure if I wasn't going to move to the US and then we could have applied for a marriage visa. I know he is the man I want to spend my life with and I can't wait to get married
So who knows?
I think with regard to how many kids I'd like to have two. But I wouldn't really mind if he wanted only one or three. He wants children too and he'll be a great dad. His neighbors have a little daughter and he's so cute with her, I could melt away just thinking about it.