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Well... he couldn't go back to sleep right away after listening how upset I was.
He got online for a few minutes and the first thing he said was it made sense I was that upset. Then he said "ex-FWB" is a good friend who happens to love his dog.
I told him I could understand that part, but first of all, I had no idea he wasn't home but I wasn't even expecting him to pick up (his phone rings different when it's a local or a LD call and he never picks up when it's LD unless I tell him I'm calling), I wanted to leave a message. I told him I found it rude the way she talked to me and that it made me go nuts when she said he wasn't available at the moment when I heard a man's voice in the background (it could have been the TV).
I told him if I had known she had a key to his apartment it wouldn't have been quite shocking. It's his place and he's entitled to do whatever he wants with it, but I wished I had known that.
I thanked him for being open and honest about many things regarding his past and present, but it would be nice if he could let me know what he's up to or what are his plans instead of just disappearing from the face of earth, because I'm a professional worrier.
He apologized briefly and told me he had to go back to bed, but he'd be up by 7pm his time so we could talk a bit more about this and other things going on for him during these past three days.
I'm feeling a bit better now and I'm looking forward to talk to him later tonight. I really appreciate all your opinions and support.
I'll let you know what happens next.
Well... he couldn't go back to sleep right away after listening how upset I was.
He got online for a few minutes and the first thing he said was it made sense I was that upset. Then he said "ex-FWB" is a good friend who happens to love his dog.
I told him I could understand that part, but first of all, I had no idea he wasn't home but I wasn't even expecting him to pick up (his phone rings different when it's a local or a LD call and he never picks up when it's LD unless I tell him I'm calling), I wanted to leave a message. I told him I found it rude the way she talked to me and that it made me go nuts when she said he wasn't available at the moment when I heard a man's voice in the background (it could have been the TV).
I told him if I had known she had a key to his apartment it wouldn't have been quite shocking. It's his place and he's entitled to do whatever he wants with it, but I wished I had known that.
I thanked him for being open and honest about many things regarding his past and present, but it would be nice if he could let me know what he's up to or what are his plans instead of just disappearing from the face of earth, because I'm a professional worrier.
He apologized briefly and told me he had to go back to bed, but he'd be up by 7pm his time so we could talk a bit more about this and other things going on for him during these past three days.
I'm feeling a bit better now and I'm looking forward to talk to him later tonight. I really appreciate all your opinions and support.
I'll let you know what happens next.
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