Longest time you've spent apart without seeing your boyfriend/girlfriend?

[rina]

In my previous LDR we were together in person for a month out of 2 years. In my current one.. we're meeting finally in a month, after wanting to meet (as friends) for almost 5 years

[Yaaamiii]

7 months. 17th of october to 24th may. (we closed the distance today)

Congrats! !!!

My longest was 4 months. It was at the very start of our distance and it was really hard. Those 4 months may happen again this upcoming fall semester. :/ Who knows. Hopefully he'll be able to come visit me, I won't be able to visit him at all because I'll be interning.

[princessmeg1328]

The longest we've ever been apart was four months. However, I won't see him for six months before we get married. That will be the longest we've ever been apart. At least, I know there will be a good result at the end.

[Xanahtas]

it will be 8 months, December 2011 till August 2012 (which still is unofficial so it could well be until december which is 12months D: ) Other than that, the longest was 4 months >.<

[Filly]

So far it's been almost five months and will likely be six months if he can't come next month. During the first two months our communication was non-existent and I thought he wasn't interested not realizing that the number I was ignoring was him

[Shepard-Fowkes]

7 months, from the start of our relationship (March 2011) to October 2011. It was worth the wait <3.

[WykkedIsis]

so far its been 9 months since we've been physically together. We video chat almost everyday on Skype, and text or chat through AIM. Hang in there. Every relationship has rough patches, if its worth it you can make it through together <3

[squeeker]

This time around, it will be almost exactly one year. From June 17, 2011 - June 16, 2012 we'll have been apart, but thankfully I'm going to be there 3 1/2 months this time so a nice amount of time, and it makes it feel less... instead of more often visits, it's a longer visit. I got through it by just taking each day at a time and knowing he was worth the wait and I'd see him soon.. plus we talk all the time on ooVoo video chat. But it is really difficult, especially when you see others seeing their SO's more often.. but then when they are seeing them just for a weekend or a week or two it puts it into perspective I guess.. anyways.. if they are worth waiting for, you'll find a way to manage. Keep yourself busy, make money for your visit if you can.. talk to them as much as you both are able to schedule.. and remind yourself they are worth the wait and you'll see them soon. You can do this!

[SouthernnBelle19]

Thanks to everyone for their input. I've somehow managed to stay sane this long so what's a few more months? Lol. But anyways I'm trying to stay positive about it. Mostly whenever we get to visit each other, its only for a weekend and if were lucky, a week. I'm hoping I'll get to see him soon but I have no idea when I'll get to see him again. But if I didn't think he was worth it I wouldn't be with him being so far away.

[Phantomrose]

We physically met each other back in February 2010. We did not see each other again 'til this past February... so almost two years apart. I'm going to visit him this December for about a month, so that is a relief.

[marbear31]

Almost 6 months exactly, from December 2011 to June 2012 (9 days still I see him again!!! ), and this time I'll be spending the whole summer with him and his family. It's been the hardest 6 months of my life, but he is SO worth it, no matter how hard it hurts to be apart.

I love him so much. <3

[Softy]

Soon to be 5 months and its rough, very rough.

[one-more-reason]

we were together for three months when we had our first separation. that wait was four and a half months (July-November 2011). then he stayed with me for two and a half months and now I haven't seen him since he left on February 4th. soooo as of now this wait has been nearly four months, and I'll be going back to see him in September so it'll be roughly seven months total. if my work holiday visa works out I get to be with him for a year, which is amaaaaazing. and hopefully this separation right now will be our longest time apart!

[Sora1101]

1 year and a day is the longest we've gone.

[Manoek]

6 months..

193 days to be exact