Well, thats what his parents think. HBB promised me he was coming this summer for 3 months, it been a plan for months now. He finally told his dad and his dad, within the span of 2 hours somehow convinced HBB to 'rethink' it because 3 months with me would somehow ruin all his chances of ever getting a job and joining the army. His dads logic is ridiculous, HBB needs to retake his Main Board that he failed in May and he cannot do that for 12 months. So HBB was going to join the TA (national guard essentially) and get a job until then, but he planned to come here for 3 months before that since visits will be impossible once he has a job. His dad is flipping out saying that if he takes 3 months to come here he might as well give up on passing MB...wth? Somehow 3 months is make and break is his dads mind, and worse is that HBB actually considered it. After a huge fight of me sobbing and being pissed (he was considering breaking a promise he made to me because his dad was being unreasonable) HBB decided to still come.
Now today his dad had another hissy fit and so did his mom, both emotionally blackmailing him to try and get him to stay. The tickets are already booked now, so he can't not come...instead he calls me and says "I should compromise and go for only 6 weeks...?" I am tearing my hair out right now! I paid for half this ticket expecting 3 months, if he changes it it will cost MORE and I am so mad! Why can't he see a promise is a promise, and he isn't doing anything wrong visiting me! I can't take the flip flopping, I had a huge migraine yesterday because of all the emotional stress. I mean...I don't even know what to do. Am I wrong to expect my boyfriend to keep his promises to me and not be swayed by his parents being unreasonable (the thing is he knows they are being unreasonable...but somehow he is still giving in)? Why would he WANT to come for less time? I am just mad, scared he doesn't love me, and stressed beyond all reason.
Now today his dad had another hissy fit and so did his mom, both emotionally blackmailing him to try and get him to stay. The tickets are already booked now, so he can't not come...instead he calls me and says "I should compromise and go for only 6 weeks...?" I am tearing my hair out right now! I paid for half this ticket expecting 3 months, if he changes it it will cost MORE and I am so mad! Why can't he see a promise is a promise, and he isn't doing anything wrong visiting me! I can't take the flip flopping, I had a huge migraine yesterday because of all the emotional stress. I mean...I don't even know what to do. Am I wrong to expect my boyfriend to keep his promises to me and not be swayed by his parents being unreasonable (the thing is he knows they are being unreasonable...but somehow he is still giving in)? Why would he WANT to come for less time? I am just mad, scared he doesn't love me, and stressed beyond all reason.
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