Hi,
Ive been in an LDR with a guy ive known for 5 years now, but its only been in the past 3 months we have been somewhat committed to each other. One fine day he just came out and told me he really liked me a lot and i guess the rest is history.
Yesterday on Skype he told me that he was seriously worried about us and he gets really anxious about his feelings. He loves me , he says, but he wants to understand his feelings for he is not sure about a lot of things, mainly how come he does not seem to be in this 100%. We have agreed that he needed some sort of counselling, to help him through this. And as much as im crazy about him, i suggested that we take some time off of each other, so he can think and reflect.
Thing is ,as much as he says he loves me, this scares me quite a bit. I respect that he wanted to be honest about his issues so that we can be better as a couple, and i support that. I also know that its best we dont communicate for a bit so that he is able to have some "breathing space" to figure himself out. BUt im still so scared. I am now the one getting anxious about "us". I dont know if after all this thinking is done, he would still want me. I mean he could suddenly wakeup and think that im not what he wants..... I know im just paranoid.... but im honestly scared. Im getting a little depressed now due to this.
Anyone gone through anything similar, who can offer me advice?
Ive been in an LDR with a guy ive known for 5 years now, but its only been in the past 3 months we have been somewhat committed to each other. One fine day he just came out and told me he really liked me a lot and i guess the rest is history.
Yesterday on Skype he told me that he was seriously worried about us and he gets really anxious about his feelings. He loves me , he says, but he wants to understand his feelings for he is not sure about a lot of things, mainly how come he does not seem to be in this 100%. We have agreed that he needed some sort of counselling, to help him through this. And as much as im crazy about him, i suggested that we take some time off of each other, so he can think and reflect.
Thing is ,as much as he says he loves me, this scares me quite a bit. I respect that he wanted to be honest about his issues so that we can be better as a couple, and i support that. I also know that its best we dont communicate for a bit so that he is able to have some "breathing space" to figure himself out. BUt im still so scared. I am now the one getting anxious about "us". I dont know if after all this thinking is done, he would still want me. I mean he could suddenly wakeup and think that im not what he wants..... I know im just paranoid.... but im honestly scared. Im getting a little depressed now due to this.
Anyone gone through anything similar, who can offer me advice?
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