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    #1

    Update...

    Well as of this evening, and a sort of mutual agreement...we're on an indefinite break. Not officially broken up, but not officially together either... I'm not as torn up as I thought I'd be, but I still hope that we end up together for real someday... I really do. I just love him so damn much...and he loves me unimaginably so too... But his life is just falling apart right now and his friends all hate me and his best friend is threatening to end their lifelong friendship if ever officially gets back together with me...just so much going on, he doesn't need the pressure of a relationship...an official one. So I guess it's a "complicated" relationship...if that makes sense. Still together in a sense, but no acting like a couple...indefinitely. Hmph I just...ugh I just need a hug...from someone. And an appetite so I can eat all the chocolate in the house...
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    #2
    *hugs* Sorry to hear about all of this! It's a really tough situation to be in. Keep fighting, and keep going. Things usually work out one way or another, so when it seems hopeless, try and remember that. This too, shall pass.

    And you'll be stronger for it, no matter how hard it seems right now.

    If you ever need to vent or a shoulder to cry on or anything, my inbox is open.

    Good luck!
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      #3
      *hug* I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. Hang in there. Hopefully this will be a situation you can ultimately work through.
      { Our Story on LFAD }


      Our Beginning
      Met online: February 2009
      Feelings confessed: December 2010
      Unofficially together since: January/February 2011
      Officially together since: 08 April 2011

      Our Story
      First meeting in person: 16 August - 14 September 2011
      Second visit: 17 March - 01 April 2012
      Third visit: 23 July - 13 September 2012
      Fourth visit: Looking at 23 March - 6 April 2013

      Our Happily Ever After
      to be continued...

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        #4
        Sorry to hear you are going through all this! Hopefully things will work out for the two of you. Do indulge on some chocolate, or ice cream; take care of yourself for awhile. You can make it through this!


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          #5
          ((Hugs)) Sorry to hear it. Stay strong and focus on yourself for awhile. If it works out, great, but don't pin all your hopes on it, and take the time to heal. It really will get better.
          Our separation of each other is an optical illusion of consciousness. ~Albert Einstein

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            #6
            wait... didn't he cheat on YOU?! Why would his friends hate you if that's the case? And I think it is beyond terrible that his best friend is threatening that. What a manipulative move on his/her part.

            I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope everything ultimately works out for the best for you.

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              #7
              I'm sorry to hear this... Stay strong (it's your username so I'm sure you can do it!) and I'm sending you a lot of hugs! I hope you find a way eventually.

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                #8
                Thanks y'all. We're still best friends and still videochatting and texting everyday, right now even. It's just hard that we can't act like a couple...for God knows how long...could be half a year or more for all we know. I think I may try therapy again...maybe even treatment.

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by staystrong12 View Post
                  I think I may try therapy again...maybe even treatment.
                  Good Luck

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