I was thinking about it, we should be a 'it's over' sub thingy.. Because unfortunatly that is the reality of many many relationships.
As a lot of you guys know were the last couple months of my relationship challenging. My SO has problems with drugs and need to work on himself. Unfortunatly he doesnt think I'm a caring girlfriend. He thinks i have a chip on my shoulder (sometimes true), I flip 180 on him & I have a drinking problem.
I'm not the easiest person on the planet, for sure! But neither is he!
During my stay we really found out that we are VERY different. We were oil and water, every day we were fighting about something.
During our separation I was always the one that contacted him, I called him, mailed him, FB him, me me me. So after this stay I wanted to do things differently, but not the outcome I was hoping for.
My SO had to go to rehab again, i asked him several times; please let me know when you are going, so we can talk. He reassured me that he would. Then for a whole week he doesn't send me a message or what ever, even though he was online on FB several times. Then his dad sends me a FB message if I can call me. He tells me my SO is back in rehab (for 6 weeks, NO contact for 6 weeks). He said my SO was really upset that he couldn't talk to me. What?! He had a whole week! Anyway, he back in.
So a week later I see him online again on FB?! How is that possible. So I see him writing on people's FB. And then he changed his status in: I'm back, just for a little [&
So I wait, he probably send me a message with what's going on, because last time I checked I couldn't talk to him for 6 weeks. Next day, still no message. I was pissed! Is it really so hard to write your SO a message with what's going on?!
So I send him a 'chip on the shoulder' message and we get in to a fight. He told me the things he needed from me, caring, and a girl that's asks him how's he doing. I told him that I could only go so far, he takes me for granted and I need him to put in some more effort. He doesn't think he should.
I told him that it doesn't feels like I'm in a relationship, because of the contact that we have. So we ended things.
It's over.. Everyone thought we had such a love story and it just is dead.. No happy ending...
As a lot of you guys know were the last couple months of my relationship challenging. My SO has problems with drugs and need to work on himself. Unfortunatly he doesnt think I'm a caring girlfriend. He thinks i have a chip on my shoulder (sometimes true), I flip 180 on him & I have a drinking problem.
I'm not the easiest person on the planet, for sure! But neither is he!
During my stay we really found out that we are VERY different. We were oil and water, every day we were fighting about something.
During our separation I was always the one that contacted him, I called him, mailed him, FB him, me me me. So after this stay I wanted to do things differently, but not the outcome I was hoping for.
My SO had to go to rehab again, i asked him several times; please let me know when you are going, so we can talk. He reassured me that he would. Then for a whole week he doesn't send me a message or what ever, even though he was online on FB several times. Then his dad sends me a FB message if I can call me. He tells me my SO is back in rehab (for 6 weeks, NO contact for 6 weeks). He said my SO was really upset that he couldn't talk to me. What?! He had a whole week! Anyway, he back in.
So a week later I see him online again on FB?! How is that possible. So I see him writing on people's FB. And then he changed his status in: I'm back, just for a little [&
So I wait, he probably send me a message with what's going on, because last time I checked I couldn't talk to him for 6 weeks. Next day, still no message. I was pissed! Is it really so hard to write your SO a message with what's going on?!
So I send him a 'chip on the shoulder' message and we get in to a fight. He told me the things he needed from me, caring, and a girl that's asks him how's he doing. I told him that I could only go so far, he takes me for granted and I need him to put in some more effort. He doesn't think he should.
I told him that it doesn't feels like I'm in a relationship, because of the contact that we have. So we ended things.
It's over.. Everyone thought we had such a love story and it just is dead.. No happy ending...
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