In the week since my girlfriend broke up with me, I have figured out the reasons why she left me. The 2 reasons I figured out why she left me are as follows:
1) I made her feel un-appreciated. With all the sweet things she did for me and all the things she did/said to show her love/affection, I did not notice/appreciate them. I was so focused on looking for responses/reactions in the way that I wanted to see them, whenever she showed me love/affection in her own way it went un-noticed and therefore, I could not show appreciation to them.
2) I smothered her. I did not give her the time and space that she needed so much. I should have respected her space sooner.
Therefore, with the 2 realizations I made, I have decided to write her a letter apologizing for these actions. I am not going to send the letter quite yet as I know she still needs time to think about things as do I. But I will indeed send it to her to let her know I am taking responsibility for my actions and being a man about it and correcting my actions. Hopefully, she will see how sincere I am in this letter and we can hopefully work things out. I have seen so many other relationships go through worse and stay together or get back together.
What do you all think of this? Is the letter a good idea (also since I have never wrote her one)? How long do you all think I should wait? I have still yet to contact her since the break-up.
1) I made her feel un-appreciated. With all the sweet things she did for me and all the things she did/said to show her love/affection, I did not notice/appreciate them. I was so focused on looking for responses/reactions in the way that I wanted to see them, whenever she showed me love/affection in her own way it went un-noticed and therefore, I could not show appreciation to them.
2) I smothered her. I did not give her the time and space that she needed so much. I should have respected her space sooner.
Therefore, with the 2 realizations I made, I have decided to write her a letter apologizing for these actions. I am not going to send the letter quite yet as I know she still needs time to think about things as do I. But I will indeed send it to her to let her know I am taking responsibility for my actions and being a man about it and correcting my actions. Hopefully, she will see how sincere I am in this letter and we can hopefully work things out. I have seen so many other relationships go through worse and stay together or get back together.
What do you all think of this? Is the letter a good idea (also since I have never wrote her one)? How long do you all think I should wait? I have still yet to contact her since the break-up.
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