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    Rant about your SO!

    How about a thread to let off some steam?

    Try and keep them short and sweet in here though, any long posts wanting advice or opinions deserve their own thread

    This is for those little things they do that just get on your nerves!

    Inspired by my wonderful other half, Tanja... I'll happily start off

    Ok, it's about straight lines and how stubborn she can be. Get this, it's unreal :|

    I was in Finland with Tanja over Xmas, and one day, she gets a bad back - she can't lift anything and needs help to even get on/off the sofa, and this last several days. So one night it snows very heavily and we need to shovel the snow to make a path to the stable. Of course she wants to do it herself but like I'm gonna let her in that condition. Anyways, I start shoveling, and she says do this or do that cause it's easier, which I'm more than happy to do cause she's done this a million times whereas I haven't. BUT, she then says the edges of the path through the snow isn't straight :|

    I was like... erm so? There's no-one to see it, it'll snow again tonight, what does it matter? There was a clear path, and it was fairly straight. It's not like it was S-shaped or anything. So she asked me would I straighten the edges - NOT the path remember! The path which you walk on is fine! It's the (couldn't be less important) edges of snow she wants straightened :|

    So as the path isn't finished, and there's more to do, I said now, it's pointless, the path is fine, I'm leaving it there. So bearing in mind how bad her back is - she said if I don't do it, she'll do it herself! I couldn't believe it! Mental :|

    But I still love her


    So... anyone else fancy a little rant? :P
    In a relationship with


    Read mine & Tanja's story here!

    My Albums:
    Summer 2009 / Xmas 2009
    Summer 2010: Part 1 & Part 2
    My dog Sam ♥

    #2
    I hate you babe!

    It's all true - though they don't call it an OCD for nothing!


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      #3
      I can sympathize with this, I would have said the exact same thing! I can be pretty particular on how I want things done, and if it's not even, then it'll just bother me and bother me until eventually my brain explodes. If it's not done my way, than it's just going to annoy me. Haha. And if my boyfriend was in your position, he would have reacted the same exact way.

      I don't have a rant to get off my chest now, but then again, Chris hasn't signed online yet, so maybe later I will.

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        #4
        Ha! Why not...

        I HATE one word answers like yup, okay and ah....and two words like no doubt get old quickly!!

        I DESPISE logging off without saying night/bye, etc.

        I hate time differences, as it makes the time my SO goes offline mid eveing *prior to 6PM* my time even though he's a total night owl...

        I hate getting the response "same stuff" and the like when I ask what's wrong (though it is a valid answer *le Sigh*)

        I hate that we keep loosing the connection we had and it effects our conversations...and I don't like the fact that, more often than not, its ME trying to spark a convo with a question about what he's up to or some such....

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          #5
          *shrugs* okay, why not?

          So Alex is probably the sweetest guy I know but there's only one thing about him that drives me nuts: He doesn't take everything so seriously. Granted, I might think this because I probably take things too seriously, but it's stuff like the other night when I finally got up the nerves to tell him I'm scared of moving to Canada, (it's something I want to do, but it's frightening because I will be leaving my family and friends behind to go to a country I don't know as much about as I would like (here's where library books come in handy! ;3)), he rolled his eyes and laughed! He said it'll be just like moving anywhere and he doesn't see why I'm so worried about it, but I've never lived anywhere but my house before! I never even moved when I was younger. For heaven's sake, I was born in the room across the hall! So moving will be a big deal for me and very frightening and I'd love it if he would offer some comforting words like he does when I have issues with my family or friends but all he did was roll his eyes and laugh. ; ^ ; Oh well, I knew he could be like that sometimes when I started dating him, so I guess I shouldn't complain.

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            #6
            The other night Steve and I were "pinging" (Iphone app that allows you to text to other iphones for free). I said "I love you"... he respondes "ilu2".
            I go "Ohhh I get shortforms now do I? lol"... him "lol".

            I wasn't upset or anything.He's never ever said it in a short form before... ever! I was laughing about it.. but still!!! Spell it out dammit! lol
            Just be glad we made it here alive
            On a spinning ball in the middle of space

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              #7
              I know what you mean Marian - no-one's really taken me seriously with anything in my life for as long as I can remember (mostly my family) and it can really get to you when you feel like you need the support and comfort and you're not getting it. Talk to him about it and in the meanwhile feel free to rant as much as you want!


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                #8
                Originally posted by fcbella View Post
                The other night Steve and I were "pinging" (Iphone app that allows you to text to other iphones for free). I said "I love you"... he respondes "ilu2".
                I go "Ohhh I get shortforms now do I? lol"... him "lol".

                I wasn't upset or anything.He's never ever said it in a short form before... ever! I was laughing about it.. but still!!! Spell it out dammit! lol

                Lol! My favourite so far



                Originally posted by Tanja View Post
                I know what you mean Marian - no-one's really taken me seriously with anything in my life for as long as I can remember (mostly my family) and it can really get to you when you feel like you need the support and comfort and you're not getting it. Talk to him about it and in the meanwhile feel free to rant as much as you want!

                I take you seriously babe
                In a relationship with


                Read mine & Tanja's story here!

                My Albums:
                Summer 2009 / Xmas 2009
                Summer 2010: Part 1 & Part 2
                My dog Sam ♥

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                  #9
                  My boyfriend hasn't really done anything that super annoys me. That's probably a good thing? XD Sometimes he tries to get my attention too much. I don't usually mind and I find it cute, but sometimes I'll be trying to read something (usually when I'm trying to get something to work, so I'm already semi-irritated) and he'll be on Skype making all sorts of noises to get my attention. lol I love him to death, but I'm terrible with multitasking and I can't concentrate on reading and paying attention to him at the same time. ^^;; I get a bit annoyed when I tell him I'm reading, which is my sign for "just give me a minute" and he continues. ^^;;

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                    #10
                    Haha I love this thread! Let me see here..

                    ILYT drives me crazy as does ILY. For gods sake, say it or don't! I also don't really care for "Love You" how about I LOVE YOU.

                    He loves getting letters and emails, but he rarely returns them or responds to them as "He's really bad at writing"

                    When we're driving together he likes the music so very quiet, and I like it loud!

                    When he speaks he about whispers and I feel like I'm always saying "huh?!"

                    I love him like crazy though!


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                      #11
                      hahahaa im just gonna say that andy and tanja you 2 are adorable lol

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                        #12
                        He freaks out so fast! One second he's cool and calm, the next he is having a spazz about something when the whole while I'm just like "nahhh, just chillax".

                        and I never have my phone on me... so he rings me... and I never pick up. and he throws a spazz then too saying PICK UP YOUR DAMN PHONE!! YOU NEVER ANSWER!! Hey, I'm just forgetful ok! :P

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by KeeperoftheAirmansHeart View Post
                          hahahaa im just gonna say that andy and tanja you 2 are adorable lol
                          Aren't we!

                          I love her with all my heart but I'm sure both of us might be frequent visitors to this thread... hehe
                          In a relationship with


                          Read mine & Tanja's story here!

                          My Albums:
                          Summer 2009 / Xmas 2009
                          Summer 2010: Part 1 & Part 2
                          My dog Sam ♥

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                            #14
                            @ Jackie: THANK YOU!

                            I'm sure I'm gonna take advantage of this thread instead of arguing with Andy


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                              #15
                              Aww =D yay happy couples! its so cute =)

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