What NOT to do in a marriage/relationship

[elina]

That was brilliant, thanks so much for sharing!

[TwoThree]

Great link. I shared it with my SO and he said we should print the article out and stick it on our fridge as a reminder. I don't even think he was joking.

[BellaJedi]

I loved this. I would add "don't go to bed angry", which is pretty cliche but definitely true. Letting negative feelings linger like that make you wake up still upset and that's never a good scene.

[marbear31]

I thought this article was brilliant! I think these pieces of advice are ones for the ages...and I agree with you lucybelle on always laughing and finding humor in situations. That's something I've learned with my SO--the small things turn out not to be so significant once you've laughed about them and had some time and perspective.

[Alle1770]

This article was great! I will definitely try and save it, thanks for the link! I think I agree with BellaJedi on this one, not to go to bed angry with each other. It is clichée-ish, but it's true and it's worked for me and my SO so far

[Reglisse]

Great post! I especially agree with the parts about holding hands and giving each other little kisses and hugs all the time.. I know that for me at least, those little things just makes me feel so much closer to my SO

[D.4C]

those are all very good...i was gonna add don't ever go to bed mad at each other...but number 16 kinda covers that in a way...and the biggest one for me...that ended my first marriage and a relationship after that...is always keep the line of communication open...and talk about everything...just makes things so much easier...