What NOT to do in a marriage/relationship

[lucybelle]

I thought this was a good article.

Actually let me correct myself- it's not an article, it's an opinion piece

edit again--

Softy made a good point. What would you add to the list? I think I would add: find a way to laugh every day. Laughter and smiling is so important.

[Carenza LaRue]

actually..... I enjoyed reading this....

thanks

[lyonsgirl]

I love this article... and will be trying to find a way to pass it along to my fiance. (And I'll change the "her" to "him" and do the same!)

[Softy]

All good advices for sure.

I would add ' Don't take your other half for granted'.

It's not because you have been together for a while that she/he cannot pack and leave or you never know what can happen the next day.
Every day you spend with him/her should be enjoyed to its fullest.

[Verojoon]

Many of these are things I came to realize on my own recently... I think my ex-husband and I were guilty of almost every item on the list!

[iHeartt]

great article!! Thank you for sharing!

[Snowlilly]

Very good article...I think the only thing I have to add to that is "don't ever use what your SO told you about themselves in confidence in a fight against them" sure way to destroy any intimacy and sharing..

[Black_Halloween]

I really did enjoy reading that list

I think I would add to a "do", always encourage them to do what they love and reassure them that they can and are doing an amazing job.

[Yaaamiii]

Nice! Thanks for sharing!

[Benni]

Loved it! Thanks for sharing! The advice works for ALL relationships -- not just marriage.

[Travey]

Thanks so much for sharing this! I'm not too far off from doing all of that, some of it we obviously can't do because, you know, LDR :P But it's good to see someone who gives something genuine as far as advice. It's not filled with an analysis or anything, it's a man saying what he would done differently, which we all think about at some point

[Jgui]

thanks for sharing! i really enjoyed reading the article

[dglynn77]

Thank you for posting this! I feel it is very valuable and I am so glad I read it!

[Kristin91]

This was cute, thanks for sharing

[Lilly9886]

The link doesn't work for me... I have no idea why...