I want details on YOUR most recent vist!

[chibij14]

I'm beyond excited to see my SO for the first time since we began our LDR! On 12/28 (my arrival date), it will only have been about 4 weeks since we last saw each other but anyone willing to share their first day, even the first hours of seeing their SO!? What about getting off the plane and how you felt or what happened?!

Any detail about the last week before you got there, the day immediately before??? I'm so excited I just want to hear what you all have experienced.

[Sora1101]

The day before I was freaking out because I'd never been on a plane alone before and I wasn't sure how it was going to go. My friend and I were hanging out all day because she didn't need to take me to the airport until around 10pm. We painted pictures, played cards, went and got taco bell although I was too nervous to eat anything. After the excruciatingly long flight (I have trouble sitting in an upright position for more than 2 hours) and one lesser flight later my plane landed in NY. Now I must say his airport is a total mess, there were no signs to direct us to the proper exit so I called him and asked and he said to just take the closest door too me I could find. Turns out I walked into a restricted section! After finding my way back to where I originally started I was getting extremely antsy I really wanted to see my SO and he wasn't allowed to park so he couldn't come look for me. After what seemed like hours I finally made my way outside, I saw his car and ran for him.

Then the rest of the visit followed in happy bliss

[chibij14]

AHHHHH! That just made me so excited for you! I can't imagine how that whole experience must have felt for you but seeing your SO definitely made it all better.

I LOVED your story! Thank you for sharing!

[Ciana]

I dont see my SO for thirteen days, and he is flying here, so i will just have to keep you updated ;D

[chibij14]

Awesome! Sweetie, that 13 days is going to FLY BY if you keep really busy. I know because I can't believe I'm going to see mine in just a few weeks. I play a lot of mind games with myself and say that I only have 1 more week before the week of my visit. LOL! That way I cut out almost the entire week before my visit since I KNOW that time will zoom past. I've found this mental game the best way to handle the time apart.

Best of luck and please keep me posted!

[garnet]

My SO & I had been friends for 4 years, but never met in person. When we both found ourselves single, we talked about trying stepping things up a little, and we did. He talked about meeting sometime in summer of 2013. I was like, UM how about I come down for my birthday (September 5, 2012)! It was like a week away when I said that haha. He freaked out, and then I freaked out, but I booked my tickets, the week slowly passed, and finally I got on one plane after not flying for over ten years, flew two hours, layover, second plane, two hours, and then I landed in Tucson. I had never been there, so I had no idea about how the airport was laid out. Or where I would meet my SO. I just started walking. I saw an escalator and thought eh, I'll go down. I walked to a door, a random door of a TON, and there he was, coming up through that exact door. Crazy odds. He was holding a dozen beautiful red roses for me, and it was just so crazy, after four years of being such close friends that here we were, more, and like face to face! We had never even done webcam! We shared a quick first kiss, and then headed out. There was no awkwardness, more of just a feeling of being awe struck, is this real? Are YOU real?

I told him I didn't want to stay at his place ... I wanted a neutral zone. Equal footing in getting to know each other in person. He got us a room at a lovely hotel. We checked in, and he handed me my birthday box (I travelled on my actual birthday). It was all kinds of perfect. ^__^ We talked a lot, stared at each other a lot, it was like a dream. I love that we weren't nervous or weird, this is one time friendship flowed into love flawlessly.

I am normally quiet, timid, reserved, and full of anxiety. Flying would be out of the question. Something got into me when we decided to go past friends. I feel like a new person. A much happier person. Our trip was like a fairytale it was so perfect. I have a couple pics of our time together in my photo album here.

Have a wonderful time with your SO on the 28th!!!

[chibij14]

Hey there, garnet! That is the kind of story and detail I wanted to see. I literally had a grin on my face from ear-to-ear just waiting for the next part. How amazing that you two had the energy to be drawn right to each other in a place you'd never been and him unsure of exactly where you'd be?!

As for the birthday, it is probably hard to top that since it was your first time meeting and by the pictures I could just see the love between you two. It made me really happy. I also appreciate you for making me aware of your photo albums because it just added to that feel-good moment I was having, imagining how my visit will go in a few SHORT weeks. The Old Navy picture of him "holding" your purse (more like wearing it) just cracked me up and I'm glad you captured the kiss and your awesome gifts.

Best of luck to you, your SO, and family! Your story is an inspiration!

[garnet]

Hey there, garnet! That is the kind of story and detail I wanted to see. I literally had a grin on my face from ear-to-ear just waiting for the next part. How amazing that you two had the energy to be drawn right to each other in a place you'd never been and him unsure of exactly where you'd be?!

As for the birthday, it is probably hard to top that since it was your first time meeting and by the pictures I could just see the love between you two. It made me really happy. I also appreciate you for making me aware of your photo albums because it just added to that feel-good moment I was having, imagining how my visit will go in a few SHORT weeks. The Old Navy picture of him "holding" your purse (more like wearing it) just cracked me up and I'm glad you captured the kiss and your awesome gifts.

Best of luck to you, your SO, and family! Your story is an inspiration!

Awww thank you! It made me so happy to relive the day by sharing it, so thank you for asking the question too! I about passed out laughing when he had my purse. He was soooooo out of place, and with a purse, it was just hilarious.

I hope you'll share photos from your time together too? And all the details hehe! OH is that you guys in your profile pic?? I'm all excited about YOUR visit now!

[lissla]

When I first met my boyfriend, I went to pick him up at the airport with my aunt, because I couldn't drive. His flight was supposed to get in at 7:30 am, but we were still waiting around at 9:30 am... I started to worry a little and think maybe hes not showing? And my aunt was freaking out, already lecturing me about guys... but about half an hour later there he came out the doors. All I did was go up to him and hug him lol. I got really shy seeing him. Our first couple hours were kindof awkward... I just got so shy! He was doing really good though, being in a new country and all and not knowing anyone. Anyways, later on at night we decided to watch a movie, and we cuddled and it was really sweet. When it was time to say good night he gave me a little kiss on my neck because he was scared too, lol. Anyways the next day was fine and we were ourselves again and since then (sept) we have not been apart and are extremely in love

[blankita719]

Our last visit was for a quick long weekend in November. I was extra excited because I was also going to meet one of my friends from here as well I was stressed out before coming because work had been really hectic, and I was supposed to take the entire day off the day I was flying up but ended up working a half day. Then I had to run home and pack like a crazy person since I procrastinated beforehand!

I was flying in later in the evening so I sent him a text from the airport when I was boarding. Then I sat impatiently for the next 3 hours on the plane to get up to New Hampshire to see the love of my life! When I got off the plane, he and his 17 year old son were waiting for me right past the gate where people can wait for arrivals. He gave me a hug & a quick kiss and said "welcome back home" and we went back to his house. It was the 10th time I've been to NH, so I don't get as anxious about the flights, but I love seeing him there waiting for me every time

[chibij14]

Garnet, thanks for the friend request! Yes, that profile picture (I just updated it with a Christmas scene) is of my SO and 2.5-year-old son who LOVES him. They adore each other actually. Watch for pictures after the 1st of the year because I'm sure I'll post some. LOL!


I love it, lissla! I can just hear your aunt giving you the talk about how she thinks all men are, so I'm glad your worries and anxieties were washed away when he finally arrived. I'm really happy you got to a more comfortable place with each other, but you have to admit... the nervousness is pretty darn cute. Keep it going hun and good luck with your relationship!


Oh blankita719! That made me want to cry when I read the line about him saying "Welcome home", especially with his son by his side. You must really feel good about what you all have and I'm glad you're able to visit so often. It's nice to see another person who has a FL relationship, but we're the flip flop since I'm the one from IL and my SO is from Pensacola. Girl, good luck and I'm so happy for you!

[kayla_622]

Our last visit was back in November for 5 days. I flew to see him. It was my first time flying and I was a bit nervous but, I think the thought of being with him for 5 days helped ease my nerves some. When I arrived in his town he wasn't off work yet and wasn't there to pick me up yet. I had been hoping he would be there waiting for me and we would have that typical airport meeting but, his work delayed him and when he did arrive he was very frustrated because he couldn't be here when I got off the plane but everything ended up working out. He picked me up out front and we gave each other a little kiss and were on our way.

When I got back to his place he had some candy sitting out on the table. He told me he got me some little gifts. That made me smile so much. He had been asking me a few weeks before my visit what my favorite candy was and I had thought nothing of it except that he was just wanting to know. It was very sweet (no pun intended haha). I had told him he shouldn't have but he told me he wanted to get me a little something. Its definitely the little things like that make me happy that I have him.

Our time together was GREAT. He had to work a couple days while I was there but, I was okay with that. He took me to this little Korean restaurant that he likes to go to. It was my first time ever having Korean. He even had me try kimchi which, is fermented cabbage. I...actually liked it. I was pretty surprised. We also went to go do typical things like go see a movie and stuff like that but, I think we really enjoyed just hanging out with eachother at his place.

When the day came for me to leave he took me out to breakfast and then we went back to his place and literally just cuddled for 4 hours before I had to leave. It was so nice and I wish I could have just stayed there for ever. He took me back to the airport when it was time and we hung out for a little bit before I had to go through security and get to my gate. As I was about to leave him before going through security we hunged and gave our goodbye kisses and I left to go through security. In the back of my mind I thought he would be standing there watching me go down the hall to my destination but, when I got about halfway there I turned around and I didn't see him. There was a lot of people there so I thought he was just behind a few people. I tried so hard to hold back my tears while going through security. It was really hard. When I got to my gate I sat down and texted him telling him that I missed him already. He text back almost had me break down in tears right there. He said "Me too. I stood and watched you walk almost all the way up there but had to leave so I woudn't stand there lookng sadly down that hall." I'm not one for crying in front of people so holding back my emotions was seriously hard to do. We texted back and forth a few more times and then I had to board my plane. I had a connecting flight with about an hour inbetween to just wait around. So, when I got to my gate for my second flight. I called him and we talked a bit. It was really nice and helped with keeping myself composed. I texted him when I got home (which was about 11pm). He was already in bed since he had to get up at 4am. That night I slept in one of the shirts he gave me while I was there.

[chibij14]

Hey kayla_622! First of all, I know he has great taste because he took you to a Korean restaurant and I'm really proud of you for trying kimchi! I love that stuff because it's a little spicy and sweet but very unique taste. Good for you! And yes, the little things are what make a world of difference so the fact he'd been scheming to find out your favorite candy and have it ready is just darling and appreciated!

When I got to your second segment I began to tear up because I could literally feel that part of going through security alone, looking back to see if they're still standing there. I had a similar situation where I bawled all the way to the airport and the walk to security but he was very reassuring in telling me multiple times how much he loves me. He did stay there the whole time but his situation is different. My SO had been in a LDR with a woman from Germany who was his first for many things, but they ended after 6 years so he has been through the departing process many times. Me, that was my first and I took it very hard. This next trip on 12/28, I'm hoping it will be easier for me than last time... I'm really glad that you and your SO had a chance to text and he was honest about how sad he was seeing you go. Doesn't that just make you melt?! That fact that he loved you so much he just couldn't stand to literally watch you walk away?! Anyway, good for you and I hope you all can visit again soon. Just remember, tax returns will be coming up soon so all of us in LDR's may be able to get one good trip in soon.

As for the shirt, awesome because we do that too! I just wear it and the plan is to wash it the day before, have him wear it while I'm there, then I wear it home for the next 4 weeks until we meet again. I love LDR's... They make you appreciate your SO that much more until the day, if that's what the future holds, you decide to become one family.

[garnet]

Garnet, thanks for the friend request! Yes, that profile picture (I just updated it with a Christmas scene) is of my SO and 2.5-year-old son who LOVES him. They adore each other actually. Watch for pictures after the 1st of the year because I'm sure I'll post some. LOL!

Okay, you guys look like you should be on an advertisement! You are so pretty, your son is adorable, and your SO, if you don't mind my saying so is quite easy on the eyes himself. ^__^ Such an adorable couple/family. That is awesome your son loves your SO. My son, who is days from 19 months absolutely loves my SO too. They got on Face Time and my sons face just LIT UP, and he hasn't seen him in at least a month. It was so sweet.

I will totally be stalking your profile hehe!

[chocolatelust3oh5]

Well he came down to Ft. Lauderdale to meet me he has a older brother that stays by Miami, but he didnt tell me that his brother played football for the titans o_O!!! So I pulled up to this big house on the beach thinking I'm going crazy or I had the wrong address come to find out his brother stay next to micheal miller of the heat I'm like OMG you couldve told me this but it was fun dude has and elevator and movie theater in his house I may sound a little corny but I got to meet a millionaire I mean wow I still giggle around*jevon. But I had a wonderful time with my bf he is the sweetest person I ever dated and so shy and modest ^_^