A lot has went on in the past year: I moved to Florida for about 6 months, got my first job, and found out what it was like living in Florida with the SO. Being here, I was happy- but with HIM. He still lives with his parents and his parents especially mother, stressed me out beyond belief. Since then, I had to stay in Ohio due to health issues and am no longer living in Florida. I've been planning out college here (Which I was originally going to do in Florida) and go next month to meet with an advisor. But- with everything that's happened, I feel like it's just time to leave this relationship. I do still love him, but i just feel weird now. When he left- I was obviously sad and crying days before and when he left but the next day- I've been fine. I've been sad but I haven't been crying and feeling miserable like I had in the past when he'd visit. I still miss him, but I feel like I'm starting to fall out of love and am getting sick of this waiting game. We've been together for over 2 years and he still doesn't have a car, a steady job, and still isn't done with college. when I was there his parents helped and pitched in money with me to get US a car- and in the end THEY took 'our' car for themselves and sold theirs....
I'm honestly not happy with his family, they drive me crazy and I don't like them. And he's just been disappointing me over and over. Though he is even more depressed because I was there for 6 months and now I'm gone- but all my things are there. He hasn't been through it before so he's been in a little shell all depressed....
But he's just not making an effort anymore about a job or anything and it's just ruining things for me. I want him to get a job so he can support himself and start to try and move out or get himself a car or even save for moving here. We've discussed and he said he would move here after college (Yet we don't even know when that's going to be. It was supposed to be over by the next year but now i think it's a different story.) I mean I do still have feelings for him and I want to not even write this because I can't believe that I feel this way... but I just think it's over.
Even if I do end it, like I said a lot of my things are there so no matter what happens, I will need to still talk to him to get my things back. and I don't think he's evil enough to throw it out or anything...
and I have told him that I'm iffy about the relationship and he says that if I want we can take a break- but I think I ... I just don't know what I want out of this anymore. and I don't know how to break it to him that I don't think there's any fixing it.
Honestly I think moving there was the biggest mistake because that's a lot of the reason I feel the way I do now- yet it's a good thing. His family is what started making me question if he's who I want ... I mean I honestly cannot stand them! I just.. don't know what to do or what exactly I'm even feeling.
I'm also afraid of what will happen to him if we break up... I'm afraid he may harm himself or just give up on everything in his life, and I don't want to be the cause of that.
I'm honestly not happy with his family, they drive me crazy and I don't like them. And he's just been disappointing me over and over. Though he is even more depressed because I was there for 6 months and now I'm gone- but all my things are there. He hasn't been through it before so he's been in a little shell all depressed....
But he's just not making an effort anymore about a job or anything and it's just ruining things for me. I want him to get a job so he can support himself and start to try and move out or get himself a car or even save for moving here. We've discussed and he said he would move here after college (Yet we don't even know when that's going to be. It was supposed to be over by the next year but now i think it's a different story.) I mean I do still have feelings for him and I want to not even write this because I can't believe that I feel this way... but I just think it's over.
Even if I do end it, like I said a lot of my things are there so no matter what happens, I will need to still talk to him to get my things back. and I don't think he's evil enough to throw it out or anything...
and I have told him that I'm iffy about the relationship and he says that if I want we can take a break- but I think I ... I just don't know what I want out of this anymore. and I don't know how to break it to him that I don't think there's any fixing it.
Honestly I think moving there was the biggest mistake because that's a lot of the reason I feel the way I do now- yet it's a good thing. His family is what started making me question if he's who I want ... I mean I honestly cannot stand them! I just.. don't know what to do or what exactly I'm even feeling.
I'm also afraid of what will happen to him if we break up... I'm afraid he may harm himself or just give up on everything in his life, and I don't want to be the cause of that.
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