Poll: which do you prefer - travelling to your SO or your SO coming to visit you?

[JoeyBug]

We haven't visited each other yet, but here's how I think I'll feel. While I absolutely love flying, I'm terrified of flying by myself, since it's not just a straight shot. There's transfers and stuff. So because of that, I've asked him to come here first. However, as far as the actual visit, not the travel, I think I'd rather go there. I think I would be more comfortable around his family than I am around mine to be honest. Plus, I'm not the best host ever.

Hey! We're both in the same place