I think some of y'all misunderstood my point. ^^; I'm not saying, "Oh, there can be no knowing!" I'm saying I think people over romanticize everything and jump to conclusions early on. Do I think I 'know'? By that I mean I can't see myself with anyone else and I am in love iwth Alex. So I think I may 'know.' However, there's always another person. So while I say, "Oh, I love him, I can see a life with marriage and children with him" he may say, "I'm not so sure about this yet." I think it's too early in the relationship to know for sure what the outcome will be. I think that's the case with every relationship. Until you make the decision that you will or will not make it work (my mother told me that she and Dad sat down when they were engaged and said, "There will be no divorce, whatever happens"), you can't completely 'know.'
I know that I'm comfortable with Alex, I know that I trust him completely. I know that I'm comfortable enough to get intimate with him and show him sides of myself I can't show to anyone else. I know that if he asked me to marry him right now I'd think it was too soon, but if we waited a few years I'd be all for it. I know he trusts me enough that he's with me (which is almost a miracle considering his past relationships) and he trusts me enough to be intimate. But I know that if we end up married we will likely experience a break up first.
I know that I'm comfortable with Alex, I know that I trust him completely. I know that I'm comfortable enough to get intimate with him and show him sides of myself I can't show to anyone else. I know that if he asked me to marry him right now I'd think it was too soon, but if we waited a few years I'd be all for it. I know he trusts me enough that he's with me (which is almost a miracle considering his past relationships) and he trusts me enough to be intimate. But I know that if we end up married we will likely experience a break up first.
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