I don't know how many of you read my last forum topic about me and my SO, but today we've talked and everything and she decided that she's been stretched too thin lately and stressed out, she says she doesn't think we can be together and that she wants to see where her feelings go with another guy. I feel obligated to say that, she's been feeling things about him because recently I had been depressed pretty badly at the same time that she was...which made her whole situation worse and she couldn't rely on me to be strong for her...so she confided in him. So I understand that it's because of me that her feelings are there. And he would also be a long distance friend, not someone there physically with her.
I haven't given up on her yet, I can tell in her voice when we talk on the phone that she still loves me. If she didn't still want to be with me she wouldn't be so hurt would she? I couldn't be strong for her before, but I sure as hell can now.
It's so complicated...but does anyone have any thoughts or helpful tips? Please don't suggest that I leave her because I will outright tell you right now, that's not going to happen until I know that she herself is actually sure about not wanting me to be with her...right now I know she's hurt and even though I desperately want to be with her I've tried giving her some space...I'm sending flowers with a card however, and a love letter I'm working on soon enough, I'm hoping it won't be smothering.
I haven't given up on her yet, I can tell in her voice when we talk on the phone that she still loves me. If she didn't still want to be with me she wouldn't be so hurt would she? I couldn't be strong for her before, but I sure as hell can now.
It's so complicated...but does anyone have any thoughts or helpful tips? Please don't suggest that I leave her because I will outright tell you right now, that's not going to happen until I know that she herself is actually sure about not wanting me to be with her...right now I know she's hurt and even though I desperately want to be with her I've tried giving her some space...I'm sending flowers with a card however, and a love letter I'm working on soon enough, I'm hoping it won't be smothering.
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