Is it cheating? Jumped the pond and found an ugly scenario.

[silvermoonfairy3]

I woke up to a text from him saying that he realizes that he is a habitual liar and continually makes excuses for his actions before he even acts on them, that he's dedicating himself to changing, etc. etc. He's asked me to attend our couples session this evening, as well, but instead I think I will spend the evening finding somewhere else to stay for the next two weeks.

I think trying to find somewhere else to stay is a terrific plan. I know it's going to start getting difficult with him promising the world, saying he can change, asking you to continue to go to couples' therapy, but stay strong. He's told you he would change before, but instead continued to disrespect your feelings and your relationship. He suddenly sees that you're serious about ending things and is throwing out any desperate attempts he can, but if you gave in, chances are he'd be right back to how he was in a month.

Good luck finding a place to stay for a couple weeks, and we're here if you need to talk!