(Sorry if this is not the right place for this but I wanted to post it really quick!)
Okay, basically I need to hear some opinions. It's about potential pregnancies/other things and a sort of LDR.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We're both young and at university. We're kind of half LDR half not as when we're not at uni together we're a few hundred miles apart.
I last saw my boyfriend about two and half weeks ago. I've had strange light bleeding for about three weeks. At first I didn't think anything of it as I'm on cerezette and it's known to mess around with your cycle. Anyway, the bleeding didn't stop after I went home from uni and I became paranoid about implantation bleeding, so I decided to take a pregnancy test which came back negative. All was good. Decided to be extra cautious though and take another in a weeks time, which was this morning. It was positive.
Cue major freakout and phonecall to best friends who suggested I did another test and that they'd travel back to university so that we could meet up and they'd accompany me to the doctors for support. A couple of hours later I took another test, which came back negative. So so far, two negatives and one positive. Google tells me that a false positive is really rare and that a false negative is less reliable.
Boyfriend is flying home from holiday tonight but is going to China for a month in a matter of days. I'm planning on taking another test tomorrow and travelling to see my doctor in a couple of days just to be extra sure. As I'm on birth control and I've had two negatives I'm not really sure I'm pregnant. My theory is that it could be an ovarian cyst as my symptoms really line up. Either way, I'm really scared as both are real possibilities.
I'm not sure whether I should tell my boyfriend now or after I've gone to the doctor's in a few days. I don't want to worry him while he's on his trip and I don't want to worry him if it turns out to be nothing but I'm really worried and could do with his support right now. I'm worried that when we skype tonight I'll start crying again and he'll want to know what's wrong. I really just wish he wasn't s far away right now as I really just want him to cuddle me and help me through it. I'm not going to be able to see him for at least another month at best. I also feel he'd be upset if he later found out I didn't tell him.
so basically tl;dr both negative and positive result, strange symptoms, potentially not a pregnancy but something else. I want to tell my LDR boyf now to put my mind at ease but he's travelling and I don't want to ruin his trip or make him worry. Won't see him for at least a month. Should I wait? Should I go to the doctors tell him at all if it turns out to be nothing?
And if it makes any difference, if it is a pregnancy I won't be keeping it. I'm too young, in uni, too financially unstable, and I have a crappy home/family life with nowhere to raise a child. Keeping it would not be an option.
Please help!
Okay, basically I need to hear some opinions. It's about potential pregnancies/other things and a sort of LDR.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We're both young and at university. We're kind of half LDR half not as when we're not at uni together we're a few hundred miles apart.
I last saw my boyfriend about two and half weeks ago. I've had strange light bleeding for about three weeks. At first I didn't think anything of it as I'm on cerezette and it's known to mess around with your cycle. Anyway, the bleeding didn't stop after I went home from uni and I became paranoid about implantation bleeding, so I decided to take a pregnancy test which came back negative. All was good. Decided to be extra cautious though and take another in a weeks time, which was this morning. It was positive.
Cue major freakout and phonecall to best friends who suggested I did another test and that they'd travel back to university so that we could meet up and they'd accompany me to the doctors for support. A couple of hours later I took another test, which came back negative. So so far, two negatives and one positive. Google tells me that a false positive is really rare and that a false negative is less reliable.
Boyfriend is flying home from holiday tonight but is going to China for a month in a matter of days. I'm planning on taking another test tomorrow and travelling to see my doctor in a couple of days just to be extra sure. As I'm on birth control and I've had two negatives I'm not really sure I'm pregnant. My theory is that it could be an ovarian cyst as my symptoms really line up. Either way, I'm really scared as both are real possibilities.
I'm not sure whether I should tell my boyfriend now or after I've gone to the doctor's in a few days. I don't want to worry him while he's on his trip and I don't want to worry him if it turns out to be nothing but I'm really worried and could do with his support right now. I'm worried that when we skype tonight I'll start crying again and he'll want to know what's wrong. I really just wish he wasn't s far away right now as I really just want him to cuddle me and help me through it. I'm not going to be able to see him for at least another month at best. I also feel he'd be upset if he later found out I didn't tell him.
so basically tl;dr both negative and positive result, strange symptoms, potentially not a pregnancy but something else. I want to tell my LDR boyf now to put my mind at ease but he's travelling and I don't want to ruin his trip or make him worry. Won't see him for at least a month. Should I wait? Should I go to the doctors tell him at all if it turns out to be nothing?
And if it makes any difference, if it is a pregnancy I won't be keeping it. I'm too young, in uni, too financially unstable, and I have a crappy home/family life with nowhere to raise a child. Keeping it would not be an option.
Please help!
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