With a couple of "I love you" threads going around, I really needed to ask this question
How long does it take to fall in love and be in love with someone?
I know there is no correct answer or a single answer to that. Let me share a bit.
Me and s/o have been together for a year now, we have had 8trips over the course of the year.
Just a week ago when I saw him I hinted super strongly that i love him and he flat out told me he doesn't love me. I am my s/o longest relationship and he has never said "I love you" to anyone before. The only woman he ever loved truly was his girl best friend who he liked for 5years but she never felt the same.
I'm just really confused at this point. I'm leaning towards the "if he doesn't love you now, he probably never will" and it scares me to no end. Or am I just being really impatient?
Just to clarify: he doesn't say it but he doesn't "show" me love either. He knows my love language and it sucks that he doesn't do anything with it.
I really need some opinions and thoughts especially from fellow long distance folks.
How long does it take to fall in love and be in love with someone?
I know there is no correct answer or a single answer to that. Let me share a bit.
Me and s/o have been together for a year now, we have had 8trips over the course of the year.
Just a week ago when I saw him I hinted super strongly that i love him and he flat out told me he doesn't love me. I am my s/o longest relationship and he has never said "I love you" to anyone before. The only woman he ever loved truly was his girl best friend who he liked for 5years but she never felt the same.
I'm just really confused at this point. I'm leaning towards the "if he doesn't love you now, he probably never will" and it scares me to no end. Or am I just being really impatient?
Just to clarify: he doesn't say it but he doesn't "show" me love either. He knows my love language and it sucks that he doesn't do anything with it.
I really need some opinions and thoughts especially from fellow long distance folks.
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