Not talking since a week

[soulofmusic]

I'm considering it too, but otherwise, why did he always start the discuss and come to me? And stay up very late only to talk to someone he doesnt really like? It doesn't make sense wasting that much time for someone insinificant... nop?

[0897klpq]

When he contacts you back I'd ask him for a back up contact.

You said you tried skype but that didn't work.

Ask for snapchat, at least then you can see a picture of him if it does seem sketchy.

What if you also make a new kik account and try messaging him on it to see if you get a reply?

Even an email account would help out. It may seem like he is playing with your feelings which isn't cool. :/

[soulofmusic]

I sent me a photo of him everyday and he once sent me a pic of his ID at the beginning of our relationship.

[0897klpq]

How many pictures do you have of him?

[soulofmusic]

From about...400+ and videos

[differentcountries]

I'm considering it too, but otherwise, why did he always start the discuss and come to me? And stay up very late only to talk to someone he doesnt really like? It doesn't make sense wasting that much time for someone insinificant... nop?

I am not saying he didn't use to care about you or maybe still does, but if he got overwealmed by the situation, just staying out of foucus seems to be the solution some people take.

[soulofmusic]

I am not saying he didn't use to care about you, but if he got overwealmed by the situation and saw no other way to get out, just staying out of foucus seems to be the solution some people take.

Yeah, I got what you meant, I don't know yet what it means and it's a commun situation/ reaction that the other one left because he/ she doesnt know how to quit the relationship

[0897klpq]

How old is he, of you don't mind me asking?

You could try making a new kik account and messaging him on it. Not sure how kik works persay, but maybe the message is not delivered because you are blocked?

[soulofmusic]

Well, I had already another second account and checked it hahaha (i'm weird) and his accound was already inactived (like it is deleted from his phone since more than aweek)

[0897klpq]

Hm,

I think what you can honestly do is just wait. Then get a 2nd form of contact and explain to him how you felt and were worried. At least get an email. everyone has those these days

[soulofmusic]

Thanks you 0897klpq, what you said help me, it's just so hard to just wait. I don't want to give up on it because I know it's probably only that he cant control, but Idk. It's hard for me to imagine him finding a way to contact me (for the moment) out of our usual messager box. I really hope he'll find a way of just come back soon because waiting is killing me of anxiety.

[0897klpq]

Just keep yourself busy and soon enough you will forget about it.

take your dog for a walk, go for a walk, hangout with some friends, play some video games something to focus your attention on that.

[soulofmusic]

Thank you a lot!!

[alji1320]

i agree with it. there is always a way to keep in touch - even there is a technical problem. sounds not good - until now.

[soulofmusic]

It'll be soon two weeks since I didn't get any news, his phone seems disconnect again. What should I do ? Would it be that worst to try to contact someone else ? Maybe he didn't find a way to contact me , maybe he's just ignoring me, I see like the only way I can be sure of what's going on it's to ask someone... I thought of the worst like I'd get no reply or the person'd say he doesn't know me, so I'm prepared for the worst, but I'm still afraid of the truth...