For a couple of weeks now my GF has been pulling away emotionally and starting fights on no pretext. When I try to ask what's going on the only responses I get are either "Nothing." or "I don't want to talk about it."
O.k., maybe she just needs some space. Increasingly though I've been feeling that I'm the only one in the relationship. I'm definitely the only one making compromises and trying to work on things.
Last night we made plans to talk this morning. Then she started a real doozy of a fight and then hung up on me. I tried to call her back but she wouldn't answer.
No call from her this morning and again she wouldn't answer when I called. A couple hours later I get a text that was supposed to go to one of her friends but that she accidentally (?) sent to me. It was very mean about me, to say the least.
I try to call again, she doesn't answer. Try to text, nothing. Finally I get an even worse text, saying that we're done and blaming me for everything.
To say that I'm heartbroken isn't nearly strong enough. I'm completely and totally devastated. We knew each other so well that she knew exactly what to say to inflict the most hurt and pain on me.
I can't take it any more. I feel like I've been emotionally obliterated. I've blocked her from calling or texting me; any emails will (hopefully) get blocked by the spam filter.
Sorry for the long vent but I don't have anyone I can talk to about this. I want to just crawl into a hole and close it behind me.
O.k., maybe she just needs some space. Increasingly though I've been feeling that I'm the only one in the relationship. I'm definitely the only one making compromises and trying to work on things.
Last night we made plans to talk this morning. Then she started a real doozy of a fight and then hung up on me. I tried to call her back but she wouldn't answer.
No call from her this morning and again she wouldn't answer when I called. A couple hours later I get a text that was supposed to go to one of her friends but that she accidentally (?) sent to me. It was very mean about me, to say the least.
I try to call again, she doesn't answer. Try to text, nothing. Finally I get an even worse text, saying that we're done and blaming me for everything.
To say that I'm heartbroken isn't nearly strong enough. I'm completely and totally devastated. We knew each other so well that she knew exactly what to say to inflict the most hurt and pain on me.
I can't take it any more. I feel like I've been emotionally obliterated. I've blocked her from calling or texting me; any emails will (hopefully) get blocked by the spam filter.
Sorry for the long vent but I don't have anyone I can talk to about this. I want to just crawl into a hole and close it behind me.
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