help!!!!

[randomnerd]

What I meant by being sexually compatible is not necessarily how well you can do it together because that can be worked on but I meant more along the lines of sex drive - does he need it every day but you're okay with once every two weeks.

[aniay]

What I meant by being sexually compatible is not necessarily how well you can do it together because that can be worked on but I meant more along the lines of sex drive - does he need it every day but you're okay with once every two weeks.

It still changes with time, with the relatinship phase, with time of the year or in case of girls even time of the month. So even in this way compatibility is really hard to check ;D

[differentcountries]

What I meant by being sexually compatible is not necessarily how well you can do it together because that can be worked on but I meant more along the lines of sex drive - does he need it every day but you're okay with once every two weeks.

That you will not neccesarily find out by sleeping together. Often, sex drives will be similar or close proximity in the beginning, reflecting the novelty of sex and the other person, but can still settle at a different pace later on, like a couple of years later.

Also, sex drives are dependant on lots of things not directly related to the couple. Like how you eat, exersize, your work, kids etc. When we met, my sex drive was higher than my husband's. Right now, my husband has a bigger sex drive than me, because I have been affected a lot by work and medicines. I imagine things might still change. Also, you can adjust to a difference in libidos. I have had a partner who had a much lower libido than myself, we found ways, it is doable.

[Dwessie]

All these points are also good!
I just hope they can be that open is all, I was worried that they'd wait and then be too nervous to talk about it and it'd be really lame forever and cause a ton of stress.