Would you ditch him on your B-day? If you did, and he called you on it? Would it upset you? His B-day is no excuse to ignore you, it's just a huge red flag in your face. If you don't react you are inviting him to push you away at will and making it okay. If it was my SO, I would call and confront him. My SO forgot my B-day one year and it hurt but it was an honest one time mistake. I confronted him immediately and he was very apologetic and it never happened again.
I would call him, and if he ignores you, he made his choice, his B-day is more important than you. Would yours be more important to you than him? Mine was not, it hurt, but we dealt with it, moved past it and got stronger. That's what couples do. You should be a team. Partners. Is this how you what your future to be? Take control of your future.
I would call him, and if he ignores you, he made his choice, his B-day is more important than you. Would yours be more important to you than him? Mine was not, it hurt, but we dealt with it, moved past it and got stronger. That's what couples do. You should be a team. Partners. Is this how you what your future to be? Take control of your future.
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