Giving her my diary?

[sunmat]

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[C.C.]

Oh I thought that stereotype was about women :rolleye:

I don't agree with things like that. Sharing your feelings is never wrong. Not even in friendship. If you trust her and want to open up for her go for it.
Also this is cheesy but: The trust is about giving someone means to destroy you and trusting they won't do it. To be in love is to be vulnerable.
I mean of course there's no guarantee she won't let you down. But her doing it cause she took you for granted due to shared feelings? Then you'll know you were with the wrong person.

I mean you don't have to do it, if you don't feel comfortable. But don't follow some silly stereotypes, relationships are all about being open and finding human connections, well to me at least, not about some mystery games.

[Katy_G]

It's not for everyone.

My SO and I have a shared journal we send back and forth online. It serves multiple purposes. I suppose it only works since we have been cowriters for a time.

Again it depends on your purposes for sending diaries, and if you are both comfortable sharing thoughts and feelings so openly.

[differentcountries]

It seems you meant vastly different things. She wrote a summary to you once a week, like one would send a weekly letter, you wrote an actual journal with things you are scared to show. And she did it not even remotely similar. This is very one-sided and I would call it off, unless you are comfortable sharing one-sided.

[sasad]

You both have different styles. Maybe share some and not all? Or start an online one or something that's less emotional for you?

[Eaving]

Tangentially, can I ask how some of your letters to each other got lost? (as someone who will soon be dealing with international post on the regular)

[kittyxuchiha11]

This post is from 2016, I don't think this person posts on here anymore. However, I've been in two international LDR now so have plenty of experience with international post if you have any questions