This has got to be one of my biggest issues just in general.
Im very picky about marriage and kids (this is just me personally I love anyone who does it any other way)
In order to have a kid, for me I must be married
In order to be married I must know 100% that I will spend the rest of my life with this person.
That being said. How many of your parents marriages didnt last? I know mine didnt my dad was gone before I was 2 (I actually just met him for the 1st time last Feb). This scares me sooooooooo much. The only people still married in my entire family were my grandparents, everyone else got divorced. My aunt and uncle divorced after like 25 years or some crazy amount of time. It bothers me. When they were my age (20) im sure they thought they were going to last forever, have a beautiful life together....is that me now? What am I setting myself up for? A failed marriage in 25 years? Ive seen it all too many times. Everyone can tell me just not to be like that always try to make it work what if its not me? Do people fall out of love? I believe my aunt and uncle loved each other and maybe just stopped idk. It sucks thinking that people will and do change in 20 years. I guess what im trying to say is if you are considering marrying your SO is this also a thought that goes through your mind????
im pretty sure I just think too much
Im very picky about marriage and kids (this is just me personally I love anyone who does it any other way)
In order to have a kid, for me I must be married
In order to be married I must know 100% that I will spend the rest of my life with this person.
That being said. How many of your parents marriages didnt last? I know mine didnt my dad was gone before I was 2 (I actually just met him for the 1st time last Feb). This scares me sooooooooo much. The only people still married in my entire family were my grandparents, everyone else got divorced. My aunt and uncle divorced after like 25 years or some crazy amount of time. It bothers me. When they were my age (20) im sure they thought they were going to last forever, have a beautiful life together....is that me now? What am I setting myself up for? A failed marriage in 25 years? Ive seen it all too many times. Everyone can tell me just not to be like that always try to make it work what if its not me? Do people fall out of love? I believe my aunt and uncle loved each other and maybe just stopped idk. It sucks thinking that people will and do change in 20 years. I guess what im trying to say is if you are considering marrying your SO is this also a thought that goes through your mind????
im pretty sure I just think too much
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