Boyfriend likes to party abroad - need advice

[Hollandia]

Expeditions are ok, I did say to him from the first day that I understand this is who he is and he feels a sense of achievement. It all those other parties abroad that I am not too keen on. I know that now while we are dating it may be ok, but looking into the future (and yes we don't know how thins will turn out), I would be concerned with being left alone, while the husband goes partying across Europe.

I see your point, but if he was the cheating kind, I don't think it would matter where he was, on a trip around Europe or not. You love him and trust him and when you get to the point of beyond dating and/or kids if it concerns you I would bring it up then. I just had a convo with my SO about the fact that I feel that when you are single you are out at bars all the time and when you are attached you only go every once and a while. If my SO only wanted to go out 4 times a year, that would be fine with me, if he wanted to go out every weekend, it would be very detrimental to our relationship. That is something personal for each person to decide how much is healthy for the relationship and how much is unhealthy.

[srtd35]

My boyfriend parties a lot too. I trust him and it doesn't bother me. The fb stuff would bother me more. He post pictures of us all the time says he is in a relationship etc...