Hi everyone,
I am new to the forum, but in LDR and have a question, hopefully someone can shed some light on how to handle this.
My boyfriend (35) is quite well of (because of the family) and has a hobby of travelling. He goes to about 3-4 expeditions a year (skiing, rally etc in deserted locations), which I am fine with. However, once or twice a year he travels to a location in Europe, where he meets those others adventurists and where they party for a couple of days.
In combination with the fact that he wont post any pictures/ posts on Facebook with me (even if I tag him, says its private); cant plan any holidays together (because he makes decisions on things that fill up his time without speaking with me); and party, make me feel he is either unsure about me, or just likes his bachelors life.
So I am wondering if there is a commitment issue?
That said: he comes to visit almost every month, and I go to visit him often too. He is very attentive, calls and text every day, send flowers, bring gifts from expeditions and takes to/ cooks romantic dinners. Introduced me to the family after 6 month (although said he has introduced all previous girlfriends too) and family is texting me all the time, asking how I am and telling me they love me. That said we have not discussed what will happen after I finish my studying in 6 month and whether we will be closing the distance soon or discussed what challenges we may face.
Any ideas on how to handle this welcome
Thanks for reading!
I am new to the forum, but in LDR and have a question, hopefully someone can shed some light on how to handle this.
My boyfriend (35) is quite well of (because of the family) and has a hobby of travelling. He goes to about 3-4 expeditions a year (skiing, rally etc in deserted locations), which I am fine with. However, once or twice a year he travels to a location in Europe, where he meets those others adventurists and where they party for a couple of days.
In combination with the fact that he wont post any pictures/ posts on Facebook with me (even if I tag him, says its private); cant plan any holidays together (because he makes decisions on things that fill up his time without speaking with me); and party, make me feel he is either unsure about me, or just likes his bachelors life.
So I am wondering if there is a commitment issue?
That said: he comes to visit almost every month, and I go to visit him often too. He is very attentive, calls and text every day, send flowers, bring gifts from expeditions and takes to/ cooks romantic dinners. Introduced me to the family after 6 month (although said he has introduced all previous girlfriends too) and family is texting me all the time, asking how I am and telling me they love me. That said we have not discussed what will happen after I finish my studying in 6 month and whether we will be closing the distance soon or discussed what challenges we may face.
Any ideas on how to handle this welcome
Thanks for reading!
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