So my So is not the type of person to burn bridges, a year before we got together she had just gotten out of a 9 month relationship with a guy. then She dated this other girl and then me. and we've been together ever since. now, I know I'm gonna get dogged for this but sometimes without her knowing I check her facebook messages and I see that they talk. A while back we had broken up for a day and she had messaged him saying I miss your kisses. and then his status soonly after was "I'm always there for my babe _her initals here" by that time we were back together so I asked her about it and she was like really defensive about it and was like no it's not me it could be anybody, etc.
She usually never brings him up, but lately the conversations of our exes have been brought up and she's mentioned him a few times, and she's been open about how she does miss him, but now he's like a brother to her and their families are close etc. She said this yesterday "we'll talk and catch up for a few days, then we'll stop talking for a while". As far as I know they haven't seen each other, as soon as they broke up, he got another girl pregant, and I've asked her like oh would you ever get back with him and she was like no cause I don't wanna deal with the drama and he's a workaholic, etc.
But today, I happened to check her facebook and he messaged her like Hey and she responsed "Hey babe". and I read that and he hasn't responsed yet but I don't know if maybe I'm flipping out to myself for no reason and it's not like I can be like WELL I CHECKED Y OUR FACEBOOK YOU CALLED HIM BABE, cause that's not worth breaking up and fighting about. I really love her and I'm a really jealous person. As some of you know I was gonna propose to her this Thursday. But I mean, I know she goes to school, whenever she's in town she comes by my job or my house and we hang out and she's with her friends. (He lives about 30 mintues away from where I live and her family lives near me and she visits a lot)
But, while my SO was dating the girl before me, we met and she was calling me babe and stuff too and now we've been together ever since. I just really don't know if I should be worried cause we've been together for over a year now and I know she hasn't cheated, deep down I know in my heart she hasn't and she's gets guilty so she would of told me, but I just want to not feel alone on this topic and get some feedback.
I know checking her facebook is wrong and that LDR's are all about trust, I know this.
Oh, in addition, sometimes I check her texts/calls and 90% of them are from me, the rest are family and friends. Once in a time I'll see a text from her ex but it'll be like hey what's up? a few text back and forth.
She usually never brings him up, but lately the conversations of our exes have been brought up and she's mentioned him a few times, and she's been open about how she does miss him, but now he's like a brother to her and their families are close etc. She said this yesterday "we'll talk and catch up for a few days, then we'll stop talking for a while". As far as I know they haven't seen each other, as soon as they broke up, he got another girl pregant, and I've asked her like oh would you ever get back with him and she was like no cause I don't wanna deal with the drama and he's a workaholic, etc.
But today, I happened to check her facebook and he messaged her like Hey and she responsed "Hey babe". and I read that and he hasn't responsed yet but I don't know if maybe I'm flipping out to myself for no reason and it's not like I can be like WELL I CHECKED Y OUR FACEBOOK YOU CALLED HIM BABE, cause that's not worth breaking up and fighting about. I really love her and I'm a really jealous person. As some of you know I was gonna propose to her this Thursday. But I mean, I know she goes to school, whenever she's in town she comes by my job or my house and we hang out and she's with her friends. (He lives about 30 mintues away from where I live and her family lives near me and she visits a lot)
But, while my SO was dating the girl before me, we met and she was calling me babe and stuff too and now we've been together ever since. I just really don't know if I should be worried cause we've been together for over a year now and I know she hasn't cheated, deep down I know in my heart she hasn't and she's gets guilty so she would of told me, but I just want to not feel alone on this topic and get some feedback.
I know checking her facebook is wrong and that LDR's are all about trust, I know this.
Oh, in addition, sometimes I check her texts/calls and 90% of them are from me, the rest are family and friends. Once in a time I'll see a text from her ex but it'll be like hey what's up? a few text back and forth.
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