Im here to share and celebrate the fact that my SO's mom knows about me lol. I know it might be a little strange but I'm more than happy. My SO and her didn't get along for a little while and he would always make it seem like she wouldn't get along with me either. She has this idea that he should be with a black girl. That's not me and not something I could or would want to change. It made me feel bad every time I thought about the fact that we wouldn't be able to mesh families and what about when we moved in together? got married? had kids? Ive heard of couples whos SO is referred to as "the roommate" for years... And although i know he wouldn't let it get to that, I didn't feel very special.
It was always a scary thought since family is THE most important thing in my life. We are all very close and inseparable so to speak.
So finally I had a dream. In this dream, I insisted my SO tell his mom about me since we plan to move in together. He agreed to tell her but when he did, she flipped out and told him off (in the dream). So he felt so bad about it, that he decided to lie and tell me that he couldn't get himself to tell her. To which I responded by breaking things off (again, in my dream).
When I told my SO about my dream, he laughed and said she knew about us already. I froze and got really nervous. They had been getting along perfectly and everything had been great for a while but I still didn't know what had happened. After agonizing for minutes, waiting on his response text, he told me all she said was cool. She encouraged him to work hard if moving is what he wanted to do. She knows its almost a year and who I am, what I do in NY and that I'm Chicana. I was sooooooooo relieved and happy to know that things were ok and the world hadn't shook lol.
I know she had other stuff going on in her life and that we haven't even met, so I'm not completely celebrating yet. But this is a great start and it makes me feel like a greater part of his life.
It was always a scary thought since family is THE most important thing in my life. We are all very close and inseparable so to speak.
So finally I had a dream. In this dream, I insisted my SO tell his mom about me since we plan to move in together. He agreed to tell her but when he did, she flipped out and told him off (in the dream). So he felt so bad about it, that he decided to lie and tell me that he couldn't get himself to tell her. To which I responded by breaking things off (again, in my dream).
When I told my SO about my dream, he laughed and said she knew about us already. I froze and got really nervous. They had been getting along perfectly and everything had been great for a while but I still didn't know what had happened. After agonizing for minutes, waiting on his response text, he told me all she said was cool. She encouraged him to work hard if moving is what he wanted to do. She knows its almost a year and who I am, what I do in NY and that I'm Chicana. I was sooooooooo relieved and happy to know that things were ok and the world hadn't shook lol.
I know she had other stuff going on in her life and that we haven't even met, so I'm not completely celebrating yet. But this is a great start and it makes me feel like a greater part of his life.
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