So, we all know how much we look forward to seeing our SOs again after weeks/months of separation. Now, my husband and I have a weird thing going on when we get together for the first time after not having seen each other for a while - we feel very "strange" and foreign to each other!
In the almost 4 years we've been married, we've gone from CDR to LDR back to CDR at least 3 times, the time we were separated was usually "only" 2-3 months, but we always had this feeling when reuniting. This January, I went back home to visit (after having been gone for 4.5 months) and I had the exact same feeling when seeing him for the first time and spending the first few hours/days with him - I felt like it isn't really him, even though I, of course, knew that nothing had changed. He feels the same way.
Luckily, by now, we know that this will happen and that it usually takes a few days until we're completely comfortable around each other again. Still, it sucks - we feel kind of torn between being overjoyed at being together again and feeling awkward because everything feels new and weird. Does anyone else know this feeling?
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