My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2yrs now. He is about to be 23 and I'm about to be 20, so he's about to graduate next fall while I still have 2 more years of school left (plus graduate school). We met the summer before I was about to go off to school, which is 2 and a half hours away from home (where he lives). He knew early on in our relationship that I had chose to go away to school where I have a running scholarship. Now that we've made it through 2 yrs he is saying that he can't do 2 more years of this. He really wants me to move home and go to a school there to be with him. I feel that I'm not finished here at my school though. I've already adjusted here and I love it here. Switching schools right now would just scramble everything up. I feel that he should be willing to wait on me untill I finish school. He feels like we shouldn't postpone something that we could have now. I want our relationship to work out SOO bad. and he says he wants the same thing but we can't seem to solve this constant dilemma. He feels like i'm chosing the school over him, and I've told him that the school and him are uncomparable. When I ask for advice from my friends and family, they're always on my side. When he asks for advice from his friends and fam they're on his side. I believe some advice from people who don't know either of us would be helpful.
-MQ
-MQ
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