Worried At Times?

[blankita719]

Same as Moon - that we won't be able to come to an agreement on how to close the distance.

[flatliner]

that she will get tired of being far apart and want to break up, but right now its more like we wont be communicating for a couple months so thats worrying me alot right now.

[Sierra]

My greatest fear is that he isn't able to make the changes necessary to be with me. (closing the distance, blah blah blah)

[Theodosia_Amabel]

We're both in college. The time of change and finding one's self. I'm worried that we will both change and grow apart. I agree with everyone above on him getting hurt. I know his family or friends would contact me, but I still can't help worrying. He is the most important person to me right now.

[Petals]

I don't worry about my fiance meeting someone else, I'm secure in that regard. I am worried that he will be seriously ill, injured or be in a fatal accident.

[littleone]

I worry we will never close the distance. that scare's me more then anything. but I would wait forever for it to happen.

[Caitlin2009]

I don't even want to type it, but if he was involved in an accident or something and he wasn't going to survive. I couldnt get to him fast enough.

mmmhmmm thats my worst fear as well, also not closing the distance at some point were so close and that terrifies me O_o

[Sora1101]

I don't even want to type it, but if he was involved in an accident or something and he wasn't going to survive. I couldnt get to him fast enough.

This worries me to no end because absolutely NO ONE would think to contact me, the only friends he has that know I'm dating him are also online friends so they might not even get the memo that something is wrong. I'd be totally in the dark if anything happens.

[jennten]

I know we're going to be back together in september, so my greatest fear is him being injured/getting sick while i'm 3,000 miles away. I think his sister/dad would think to contact me, but he's already fallen and ended up in the hospital with a 3 inch gash in his head (in the first couple weeks that we were apart!). He was okay (surprisingly) and coherent and contacted me himself but I'm terrified something else even worse will happen before I'm able to watch out for him myself. =P

[Rosebud]

Of having my heart broken.

[Bobbiejeanne]

That he'll find someone in college and forget about me... I would hate to break up while I'm so far away from him!
Also the whole accident thing... I hadn't even thought of that! Now I'm going to be all paranoid!

I feel like a lot of us have those two similar fears. Do you guys think it's a universal fear? Do your SO know about these fears? I should tell mine, but I haven't!

[Minerva]

That he'll be lonely without someone there with him. We have years to go before we can close the distance, and that will be years he'll have to be physically by himself. It's not as bad for me -- I live with my mother and son -- but he gets lonely, and the idea of him feeling lonely breaks my heart.

And of course what others have said, that he'll get sick or be in an accident and I won't be able to get to him. Right now, no one in his world knows about us, so no one would contact me. I think once we move our relationship out in the open, someone would, but until then, it does worry me.

[bluishskin]

I'm picking him up tonight. I'd better not post what my greatest fear is (yet). :-S

[Yaaamiii]

More than one thing...that he'll be hurt or sick and that I'll be too far away or vice versa. That we'll become too busy with our studies (both in college) and eventually want or need to break up because the distance is too hard. :c

[ClipitsWings]

i can't decide :/
its either...him really really falling for someone else/giving up on me, his heart stopping...or him dying for any other reason.... before i get to meet him (or after for that matter).....or him changing his mind about everything upon meeting me :/