So after everything that has happened between my S/O and I, I finally visited him [today is my last day ]
We have talked about everything that has happened, our future, the past and have decided to stay together and he wants me to move out here with him when I graduate in 2-3 months. He has apologized profusely for everything, re-assured me how much he loved me and wants to be with me. I wrote him an email when he was in Germany (after our online fight) explaining everything straight-up, no sugar-coating anything, what I wanted and what was going on. He told me that after he read the email he realized that I was the one for him. We even started looking at apartment/condos for us to live in. My time here has been amazing although I was kind of upset about something.
He has this friend (who is a girl) back in WI, that he used to hang out with along with his best friend and their friends but she went to a different high school and college so they never talked, recently added each other on facebook. He never 'hooked up' with her or anything just friends, now she is hanging out with all of his old friends in WI again. They have started to chat on facebook, and sometimes text and sometimes rarely call each other. I'm kind of uncomfortable with it, I mean I saw the conversations on facebook and nothing was ever sexual or flirty, the only thing that caught my eye was something along the line of "wish you were here partying with us!" but I just think it's weird? He told me that nothing was going on and said he will cut back talking to her on facebook and what not. I'm just not used to him having friends that are girls, I mean he did back when we first started dating but since he moved to CA he has only had guy friends. It's just very confusing/annoying/uncomfortable for me, and when he comes back to visit I'm sure we will be hanging out with her and his friends so I guess I'll see what she is like than?
We have talked about everything that has happened, our future, the past and have decided to stay together and he wants me to move out here with him when I graduate in 2-3 months. He has apologized profusely for everything, re-assured me how much he loved me and wants to be with me. I wrote him an email when he was in Germany (after our online fight) explaining everything straight-up, no sugar-coating anything, what I wanted and what was going on. He told me that after he read the email he realized that I was the one for him. We even started looking at apartment/condos for us to live in. My time here has been amazing although I was kind of upset about something.
He has this friend (who is a girl) back in WI, that he used to hang out with along with his best friend and their friends but she went to a different high school and college so they never talked, recently added each other on facebook. He never 'hooked up' with her or anything just friends, now she is hanging out with all of his old friends in WI again. They have started to chat on facebook, and sometimes text and sometimes rarely call each other. I'm kind of uncomfortable with it, I mean I saw the conversations on facebook and nothing was ever sexual or flirty, the only thing that caught my eye was something along the line of "wish you were here partying with us!" but I just think it's weird? He told me that nothing was going on and said he will cut back talking to her on facebook and what not. I'm just not used to him having friends that are girls, I mean he did back when we first started dating but since he moved to CA he has only had guy friends. It's just very confusing/annoying/uncomfortable for me, and when he comes back to visit I'm sure we will be hanging out with her and his friends so I guess I'll see what she is like than?
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