How do you guys deal with missing special days together? I know to some I'm going to seem like such a whiner because my boyfriend and I do get get to see each other frequently but it doesn't change the way I feel about this.
I found out yesterday that while we get to spend his birthday together in a few weeks, we can't spend Valentine's Day together, my birthday or our anniversary (my birthday and our anniversary are in the same week). This DEVASTATED me. I've never been in a relationship with someone who was willing to celebrate Valentine's Day with me or would do something nice for me on an anniversary and I finally found this man who I want to be my life partner, but nope ... because of distance and schedules it just won't work (I have to do extra work so I can make more money to move out there)
We decided we would see if we could make Valentine's Day work. I'd be there literally for a day ... fly in Monday night, leave Wednesday morning. He's going to check to see if he can get the day off. There are no promises but it would mean everything if we could make that work.
So how do you guys deal with being apart from your loved one on the days you want to be together the most? I'm just ready for this distance to end. I hate it.
I found out yesterday that while we get to spend his birthday together in a few weeks, we can't spend Valentine's Day together, my birthday or our anniversary (my birthday and our anniversary are in the same week). This DEVASTATED me. I've never been in a relationship with someone who was willing to celebrate Valentine's Day with me or would do something nice for me on an anniversary and I finally found this man who I want to be my life partner, but nope ... because of distance and schedules it just won't work (I have to do extra work so I can make more money to move out there)
We decided we would see if we could make Valentine's Day work. I'd be there literally for a day ... fly in Monday night, leave Wednesday morning. He's going to check to see if he can get the day off. There are no promises but it would mean everything if we could make that work.
So how do you guys deal with being apart from your loved one on the days you want to be together the most? I'm just ready for this distance to end. I hate it.
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