I'm sorry that I haven't been around lately. I am working full time and I am a full time grad student so my time on the computer is usually homework related.
I was wondering if anyone else has had a problem I am having and if so they could give some advice. My SO and I have been long distance for the past eight months with seven months left to go. Over the past four years we've been dating we've been together two years in college. I graduated in January we have been long distance since. It's been difficult because before that we were only long distance summers that so it's been an adjustment.
Tonight we discussed our relationship and how it has been really good but every time we say goodbye it is getting more stressful. We talked about how hard the distance is and how we feel physically exhausted by it. We got into a fight this past weekend and though it was just a standard fight that was fine once we talked through it we worried that the distance is going to cause more serious fights.
Saying goodbye and the distance is getting very overwhelming. I know I am lucky to see my SO every weekend to every other weekend. We are feeling uncertain on how to get through the next seven months. Both of us are busy with school and work. In two months he will start playing collegiate volleyball which will take him across the country from January through April. I will be lucky to see him once a month.
I guess I am asking for help. Distance is seeming overwhelming and we aren't sure what to do. Our relationship is wonderful and we are happy when we are together. We have good communication and we can talk through things but it's just getting overwhelming.
Thank you in advance for your help. We have no one close to us who understand so it's nice to have you here.
I was wondering if anyone else has had a problem I am having and if so they could give some advice. My SO and I have been long distance for the past eight months with seven months left to go. Over the past four years we've been dating we've been together two years in college. I graduated in January we have been long distance since. It's been difficult because before that we were only long distance summers that so it's been an adjustment.
Tonight we discussed our relationship and how it has been really good but every time we say goodbye it is getting more stressful. We talked about how hard the distance is and how we feel physically exhausted by it. We got into a fight this past weekend and though it was just a standard fight that was fine once we talked through it we worried that the distance is going to cause more serious fights.
Saying goodbye and the distance is getting very overwhelming. I know I am lucky to see my SO every weekend to every other weekend. We are feeling uncertain on how to get through the next seven months. Both of us are busy with school and work. In two months he will start playing collegiate volleyball which will take him across the country from January through April. I will be lucky to see him once a month.
I guess I am asking for help. Distance is seeming overwhelming and we aren't sure what to do. Our relationship is wonderful and we are happy when we are together. We have good communication and we can talk through things but it's just getting overwhelming.
Thank you in advance for your help. We have no one close to us who understand so it's nice to have you here.
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