6 months without him :(

[Lizzie2579]

Thank you, Im having a bad day today, he tried to call me 3 times and i had no signal so we couldn't speak and we haven't spoken since sunday so I feel a bit down. Reading your comments helps me though! Thanks again!

[Lizzie2579]

Just an update, 3 months done, 3 to go! I will be going to see him on 20th May, I'm so, so excited! It will be 2 days after my birthday and our 1 year anniversary so hopefully lots of celebrating! Hows everyone else doing?

[kiara_silver]

My SO left in august and wont be here until April, so thats 9 months apart from our 2 month visit together. So I can relate to what your going to be feeling. Its going to be hard, won't lie, but making time for each other I think is important, even if its just a email daily, just keep the communication open. Then keeping yourself busy, and occupied., going out, anything to help pass the time. Stay strong!

[books]

Just an update, 3 months done, 3 to go! I will be going to see him on 20th May, I'm so, so excited! It will be 2 days after my birthday and our 1 year anniversary so hopefully lots of celebrating! Hows everyone else doing?

Hey that's the same day I'll be visiting my SO!

I visited my SO last month and had a great visit...it was so good to see him after all those months apart. Now I'm just trying to get through the next 3 months, so staying very busy!

[Fra101]

It's really hard to have that amount of time apart, for me and my SO it will be almost a year since we've last seen each other, and with both of us in college and work commitments, communication is a lot more scarce than it was last year. The one thing that helps me the most is just looking back and thinking about all the great times you and your SO have had together. From that you'll know you'll be together again, as the saying goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder

[FadedSunrise]

That's one of the reasons we are broken up. It's been 14 months already since the last time we met, and it will be a minimum of 18, or up to 21, or years beyond that, until we can see each other. It got to him, but mostly it got to me, and I couldn't do it anymore.

[Lizzie2579]

I'm sorry to hear your broke up. I can understand why you couldn't do it, you have to have goals otherwise it just starts to seem like there's no point. Thinking about seeing him in may is the only thing that keeps me going, then hopefully he can visit england in june/july, visa permitting, I hate visas!! Its nice to hear from people in the same boat though, this forum definitely helps to keep me strong. Thanks guys!