Okay, yesterday my SO and I were having a completely normal conversation when he randomly says "Don't you talk to your friends over the weekends?" I replied that I don't usually, the only person I really enjoy talking to outside of school is him. He then asked me if I had talked to my friend D, and what we talked about. I said I had talked to her on Sunday, and that what we talked about was personal, and I didn't think I should tell him. Y'know honor your friends secrets, girl stuff. My SO then gets in a really weird mood. He wont type emoticons anymore, and they involve alot of "....". I asked what was wrong, (He tends to do this alot) and he said nothing. I figured since he woulden't tell me anything, I'd just wait. So I said "Okay, I love you. If there's something wrong you can tell me! I'll be here if you want to talk, okay honey?" And he logged off.
I sent him messages on Facebook, pretty much restating what I said before he left. A few hours passed without response, so I asked him to tell me in the morning if something was wrong, and that I love him. I woke up this morning, and checked to see if he replied. He had. With: "Uhuh... if you say so....".
Grr! He does this a lot. He'll just ask some sort of trick question, and no matter what I answer he'll shut me out and leave. He wont even explain! Just assumes I did something wrong without any evidence, or letting me explain. He used to get onto my facebook and read my PM's with people.. which i've told him again and again not to, and he hasn't for a few months, but I think that's what happened this time. (Sorry for the weird post) Anyway, so here's my question: Any ideas of what I could do to get him to tell me things like this? Or even to prevent it? Any advice is helpful :P Thankyou!
I sent him messages on Facebook, pretty much restating what I said before he left. A few hours passed without response, so I asked him to tell me in the morning if something was wrong, and that I love him. I woke up this morning, and checked to see if he replied. He had. With: "Uhuh... if you say so....".
Grr! He does this a lot. He'll just ask some sort of trick question, and no matter what I answer he'll shut me out and leave. He wont even explain! Just assumes I did something wrong without any evidence, or letting me explain. He used to get onto my facebook and read my PM's with people.. which i've told him again and again not to, and he hasn't for a few months, but I think that's what happened this time. (Sorry for the weird post) Anyway, so here's my question: Any ideas of what I could do to get him to tell me things like this? Or even to prevent it? Any advice is helpful :P Thankyou!
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