Originally posted by RaeRae
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I feel exactly like this about the word visa just the mention of it makes me stressed. It is an uphill battle but I guess we just have to think of the view from the top of the hill, it will be worth it. I currently have the one 9-5 job, stilk looking for a second job to have any chance of applying for a visa. I have just graduated but it will be another 2years till I will earn the amount needed to support my bfs visa. I guess we just have to stay strong..



In fact, initially I couldn't even bring myself to do any research because the thought of it made me numb. I'm trying to look on the bright side now and concentrate on all of the positive stories I have read on the internet. I agree with the poster who said to just take it one step at a time or it can quickly become overwhelming. I've accepted the fact that we may get a RFE (request for evidence) or worse. It took a while to get to the place where I'm at now about it, but it's possible! Good luck.
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