How do I know if he's serious with me? I'm getting depressed.
Hi, I've been lurking around this site for a while and I think I am in an LDR for two months now. My SO and I met in a weird way. I downloaded the Omegle app in my phone and tried chatting once and we piqued each other’s interest. We had so much fun talking on Skype and we connected because of our similar interests and similar lives. We were happy whenever we talk, and he keeps saying that he’ll try to come in my country in the next six months. So from there, it blossomed into something else. But I’m not really sure about everything right now because I have never done this before.
You see, I always make time for him and try to go online as much as possible. He’s really excited whenever we talk and he says that he misses me. We’ve exchanged our ‘I love yous’ and committed ourselves into the relationship. We haven’t broadcasted anything on Facebook though because we have to meet in person first.
But the problem is, he doesn’t make the extra effort of sparing some time to go on Skype when he’s available to talk with me. Right now, we are only able to talk for 15 minutes every day (or sometimes not at all) because he said he can’t wake up earlier to talk with me. When he gets home from work, he sends me one text that he’s home and that’s it. I don’t feel like I’m important or that we’re in this together. And it’s been two months. We’ve already talked about our relationship and he said that this is a serious relationship and that we’re committed to each other but I feel otherwise.
Am I being too clingy? Is he not giving much effort and time into this? I tried talking with him about his lack of time for me and he said sorry but nothing’s changing at the moment. We still talk for only 10 to 15 minutes every other day and I’m feeling so depressed about it. I don’t want to tell him that he needs to exert time and effort into this because he might think I’m an overly attached girlfriend.
Sorry for the long rant. I just needed to vent out my feelings somewhere. We live 8,000 miles away from each other and it’s making me crazy.
Thanks!
You see, I always make time for him and try to go online as much as possible. He’s really excited whenever we talk and he says that he misses me. We’ve exchanged our ‘I love yous’ and committed ourselves into the relationship. We haven’t broadcasted anything on Facebook though because we have to meet in person first.
But the problem is, he doesn’t make the extra effort of sparing some time to go on Skype when he’s available to talk with me. Right now, we are only able to talk for 15 minutes every day (or sometimes not at all) because he said he can’t wake up earlier to talk with me. When he gets home from work, he sends me one text that he’s home and that’s it. I don’t feel like I’m important or that we’re in this together. And it’s been two months. We’ve already talked about our relationship and he said that this is a serious relationship and that we’re committed to each other but I feel otherwise.
Am I being too clingy? Is he not giving much effort and time into this? I tried talking with him about his lack of time for me and he said sorry but nothing’s changing at the moment. We still talk for only 10 to 15 minutes every other day and I’m feeling so depressed about it. I don’t want to tell him that he needs to exert time and effort into this because he might think I’m an overly attached girlfriend.
Sorry for the long rant. I just needed to vent out my feelings somewhere. We live 8,000 miles away from each other and it’s making me crazy.
Thanks!
Well LDR is hard in general. I hope we can all conquer this.
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